My now ex-boyfriend (28M) and I were hanging out at my place this weekend when the topic of fantasies came up. For some context, he’s the only person that I ever had sex with and we had been together for about three years. I’ve never felt comfortable opening up about my kinks before, but I guess that I was drunk enough that it gave me some courage.
He then asked if there were any fantasies that I had and I said that I had this fantasy for a while where I tie up a guy and peg him. That was a mistake because he looked at me like I had grown a second head. Looking back, I guess he shared a fairly tame fantasy and I immediately went for something more extreme. I said that it wasn’t something I needed or anything, but it ruined the whole mood for the weekend. He asked if this was something I fantasized about doing with him and I admitted that it was but I wouldn’t actually want to do it unless he wanted it too.
He broke up with me yesterday. He made up his mind and wished me luck before leaving.
I am heartbroken. I don’t want someone else. I want him! I don’t feel like I could ever open up to anyone else again. I feel gross and masculine. Was my fantasy really so bad??
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r/sex My now ex-boyfriend (28M) and I were hanging out at my place this weekend when the topic of fantasies came up. For some context, he’s the only person that I ever had sex with and we had been together for about three years. I’ve never felt comfortable opening up about my kinks before, but I guess that I was drunk enough that it gave me some courage. He then asked if there were any fantasies that I had and I said that I had this fantasy for a while where I tie up a guy and peg him. That was a mistake because he looked at me like I had grown a second head. Looking back, I guess he shared a fairly tame fantasy and I immediately went for something more extreme. I said that it wasn’t something I needed or anything, but it ruined the whole mood for the weekend. He asked if this was something I fantasized about doing with him and I admitted that it was but I wouldn’t actually want to do it unless he wanted it too. He broke up with me yesterday. He made up his mind and wished me luck before leaving. I am heartbroken. I don’t want someone else. I want him! I don’t feel like I could ever open up to anyone else again. I feel gross and masculine. Was my fantasy really so bad?? submitted by /u/Lovely_Hella [link] [comments]
My now ex-boyfriend (28M) and I were hanging out at my place this weekend when the topic of fantasies came up. For some context, he’s the only person that I ever had sex with and we had been together for about three years. I’ve never felt comfortable opening up about my kinks before, but I guess that I was drunk enough that it gave me some courage.
He then asked if there were any fantasies that I had and I said that I had this fantasy for a while where I tie up a guy and peg him. That was a mistake because he looked at me like I had grown a second head. Looking back, I guess he shared a fairly tame fantasy and I immediately went for something more extreme. I said that it wasn’t something I needed or anything, but it ruined the whole mood for the weekend. He asked if this was something I fantasized about doing with him and I admitted that it was but I wouldn’t actually want to do it unless he wanted it too.
He broke up with me yesterday. He made up his mind and wished me luck before leaving.
I am heartbroken. I don’t want someone else. I want him! I don’t feel like I could ever open up to anyone else again. I feel gross and masculine. Was my fantasy really so bad??
submitted by /u/Lovely_Hella
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