I (F) was just looking for some advice regarding being more confident/dominant/sexy when I’m with my bf. We’ve been together for over 2.5yrs now and although we haven’t had sex (or penetration) yet, for particular reasons that we’re working well on, we do a lot of other stuff together. However, I’ve mentioned wanting to be more confident and sexy and dominant when I’m with him cause I really enjoy pleasing him cause it makes me feel good myself. He agrees that trying to be more like this sounds good but if I’m honest I’m just not sure how to do this?? I feel a bit shy or embarrassed to be like that, even tho he makes me feel safe and happy, and not embarrassed at all. I usually try positioning myself on top of him or touching all over his body, but I assume I can try more dirty talk or give off more confident energy but I’m not sure how to do those things without feeling a bit embarrassed. Hope I didn’t ramble, but any advice?? We love trying new exciting things together so I wanna improve. Thanks!
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r/sex I (F) was just looking for some advice regarding being more confident/dominant/sexy when I’m with my bf. We’ve been together for over 2.5yrs now and although we haven’t had sex (or penetration) yet, for particular reasons that we’re working well on, we do a lot of other stuff together. However, I’ve mentioned wanting to be more confident and sexy and dominant when I’m with him cause I really enjoy pleasing him cause it makes me feel good myself. He agrees that trying to be more like this sounds good but if I’m honest I’m just not sure how to do this?? I feel a bit shy or embarrassed to be like that, even tho he makes me feel safe and happy, and not embarrassed at all. I usually try positioning myself on top of him or touching all over his body, but I assume I can try more dirty talk or give off more confident energy but I’m not sure how to do those things without feeling a bit embarrassed. Hope I didn’t ramble, but any advice?? We love trying new exciting things together so I wanna improve. Thanks! submitted by /u/Parkour_Roach [link] [comments]
I (F) was just looking for some advice regarding being more confident/dominant/sexy when I’m with my bf. We’ve been together for over 2.5yrs now and although we haven’t had sex (or penetration) yet, for particular reasons that we’re working well on, we do a lot of other stuff together. However, I’ve mentioned wanting to be more confident and sexy and dominant when I’m with him cause I really enjoy pleasing him cause it makes me feel good myself. He agrees that trying to be more like this sounds good but if I’m honest I’m just not sure how to do this?? I feel a bit shy or embarrassed to be like that, even tho he makes me feel safe and happy, and not embarrassed at all. I usually try positioning myself on top of him or touching all over his body, but I assume I can try more dirty talk or give off more confident energy but I’m not sure how to do those things without feeling a bit embarrassed. Hope I didn’t ramble, but any advice?? We love trying new exciting things together so I wanna improve. Thanks!
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