hi all, i’ve been struggling with this for a few months, and figured i’d try to get wisdom from the crowd.
before i met my current partner, i’ve never owned any sex toys before. he introduced them to me and we started using them on ocassion. everytime we use them, he uses multiple toys on me, and holds me down with his body weight. it’s super freaking hot and i wish i could enjoy it fully but i always find the vibrators to be way too intense, when pressed into my clit, especially when he spreads me open (oh my jesus i will legit scream when he does that). and obviously, i struggle and push the toys away, and we have a bit of play fighting which is so so so hot, but i can’t really enjoy it and immerse myself in this consensual non-consensual situation because a part of me is truly non-consensual because it’s too much for me to take. everytime i say that, he’s like “fuck yeah, take it all, you have no choice” and i WISH i could just sink into this because it’s so hot but i really want him to stop (and i do – i can push the toy away and push him away and he lets me).
i guess my question is, how can i genuinely enjoy this more? i love consensual non-consent and the way we do it is so hot but i can’t play-act that i want to stop – i genuinely do because it’s too much.
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r/sex hi all, i’ve been struggling with this for a few months, and figured i’d try to get wisdom from the crowd. before i met my current partner, i’ve never owned any sex toys before. he introduced them to me and we started using them on ocassion. everytime we use them, he uses multiple toys on me, and holds me down with his body weight. it’s super freaking hot and i wish i could enjoy it fully but i always find the vibrators to be way too intense, when pressed into my clit, especially when he spreads me open (oh my jesus i will legit scream when he does that). and obviously, i struggle and push the toys away, and we have a bit of play fighting which is so so so hot, but i can’t really enjoy it and immerse myself in this consensual non-consensual situation because a part of me is truly non-consensual because it’s too much for me to take. everytime i say that, he’s like “fuck yeah, take it all, you have no choice” and i WISH i could just sink into this because it’s so hot but i really want him to stop (and i do – i can push the toy away and push him away and he lets me). i guess my question is, how can i genuinely enjoy this more? i love consensual non-consent and the way we do it is so hot but i can’t play-act that i want to stop – i genuinely do because it’s too much. submitted by /u/sgsbthrowaway [link] [comments]
hi all, i’ve been struggling with this for a few months, and figured i’d try to get wisdom from the crowd.
before i met my current partner, i’ve never owned any sex toys before. he introduced them to me and we started using them on ocassion. everytime we use them, he uses multiple toys on me, and holds me down with his body weight. it’s super freaking hot and i wish i could enjoy it fully but i always find the vibrators to be way too intense, when pressed into my clit, especially when he spreads me open (oh my jesus i will legit scream when he does that). and obviously, i struggle and push the toys away, and we have a bit of play fighting which is so so so hot, but i can’t really enjoy it and immerse myself in this consensual non-consensual situation because a part of me is truly non-consensual because it’s too much for me to take. everytime i say that, he’s like “fuck yeah, take it all, you have no choice” and i WISH i could just sink into this because it’s so hot but i really want him to stop (and i do – i can push the toy away and push him away and he lets me).
i guess my question is, how can i genuinely enjoy this more? i love consensual non-consent and the way we do it is so hot but i can’t play-act that i want to stop – i genuinely do because it’s too much.
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