my boyfriend and i want to have sex but he struggles to get a condom on. how can i help? /u/Big_Pirate2229 Sex

my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and have incredible sexual compatibility. we both have a very high libido which has been great.

we are ready to start having sex but every time we try, the condom never gets on or if it does, it doesn’t stay on. i keep thinking its bc he’s hyper-focused on getting it on and doing it all properly. he’s a virgin, i’ve had my fair share of partners so i understand how sex and staying aroused can be a mental thing. he just often goes soft out of frustration and we just stop trying for the time being. i can tell he gets upset and i am always supportive, reassuring him that there’s nothing wrong with him and that we can try again.

of course i love him no less because of this but i’m wondering if there’s anything i can do on my part to help him through the process. something i could say, something i could do physically to keep him aroused while he puts it on, anything helps!

my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and have incredible sexual compatibility. we both have a very high libido which has been great.

we are ready to start having sex but every time we try, the condom never gets on or if it does, it doesn’t stay on. i keep thinking its bc he’s hyper-focused on getting it on and doing it all properly. he’s a virgin, i’ve had my fair share of partners so i understand how sex and staying aroused can be a mental thing. he just often goes soft out of frustration and we just stop trying for the time being. i can tell he gets upset and i am always supportive, reassuring him that there’s nothing wrong with him and that we can try again.

of course i love him no less because of this but i’m wondering if there’s anything i can do on my part to help him through the process. something i could say, something i could do physically to keep him aroused while he puts it on, anything helps!