I (19m) just came for the first time, and it wasn’t because of my BF. /u/Mrtristen Sex

I hope this is allowed, I’ve seen similar kinds of posts.

I have INSANE difficulty ejaculating. I’ve been to doctors, nothing has worked.

I’ve been in a relationship with my BF for 4.5 years. We’re the same age and have been in (mostly) the same classes in highschool.

Out of the many, many times we’ve “had fun” together, or on my own, I’ve never finished. We’ve tried countless different positions and scenarios and nothing has done it. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely enjoy it! But it sucks not finishing EVER.

Yesterday I was playing with a toy, and after about thirty minutes, out of nowhere I came all over my bed. IT FELT SOO GOOD. It’s like nothing I’ve ever experienced! I know exactly what I did and recreated the scenario and it worked again! Yay! I know how to cum!

But at the same time I’m also really fucking sad that it wasn’t him that made it happen. I’m really scared to tell him because I think it will make him feel like he’s not good enough. I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him? Or just try and steer our next session in that direction? Idk. Any advice is appreciated.

I hope this is allowed, I’ve seen similar kinds of posts.

I have INSANE difficulty ejaculating. I’ve been to doctors, nothing has worked.

I’ve been in a relationship with my BF for 4.5 years. We’re the same age and have been in (mostly) the same classes in highschool.

Out of the many, many times we’ve “had fun” together, or on my own, I’ve never finished. We’ve tried countless different positions and scenarios and nothing has done it. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely enjoy it! But it sucks not finishing EVER.

Yesterday I was playing with a toy, and after about thirty minutes, out of nowhere I came all over my bed. IT FELT SOO GOOD. It’s like nothing I’ve ever experienced! I know exactly what I did and recreated the scenario and it worked again! Yay! I know how to cum!

But at the same time I’m also really fucking sad that it wasn’t him that made it happen. I’m really scared to tell him because I think it will make him feel like he’s not good enough. I don’t know what to do. Should I tell him? Or just try and steer our next session in that direction? Idk. Any advice is appreciated.