Hey everyone, hope all is good. Long story made short, I’ve (28 M) been in a long sexless three year streak by now.
I don’t consider myself an absolute 10 physically speaking, but I do feel attractive enough from that side.
But the fact is, when I broke up with my ex three years ago, I feel like I internalized some of the narc abuse from her.
Before I actually met her, I had this confidence to speak with any woman on my sight. Few years later, I’m barely getting back on track, trying to force a smile when speaking with women.
It feels that as much as I try to move on and get a hookup or a relationship, I never feel sufficient for some reason, so I always go back into porn. It’s like I’ve given up the idea that someone will find me attractive again, and that my sex life is definitely over by now, lol.
It definitely pisses me off since I know that probably she can easily find another guy to fuck with (double sense intended, lol). But I can’t even get some sweet love after surviving three years of problems related with my previous jobs and family issues.
Anyone else with a similar experience? Would love to know how you managed through!
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r/sex Hey everyone, hope all is good. Long story made short, I’ve (28 M) been in a long sexless three year streak by now. I don’t consider myself an absolute 10 physically speaking, but I do feel attractive enough from that side. But the fact is, when I broke up with my ex three years ago, I feel like I internalized some of the narc abuse from her. Before I actually met her, I had this confidence to speak with any woman on my sight. Few years later, I’m barely getting back on track, trying to force a smile when speaking with women. It feels that as much as I try to move on and get a hookup or a relationship, I never feel sufficient for some reason, so I always go back into porn. It’s like I’ve given up the idea that someone will find me attractive again, and that my sex life is definitely over by now, lol. It definitely pisses me off since I know that probably she can easily find another guy to fuck with (double sense intended, lol). But I can’t even get some sweet love after surviving three years of problems related with my previous jobs and family issues. Anyone else with a similar experience? Would love to know how you managed through! submitted by /u/TrainingMushroom2641 [link] [comments]
Hey everyone, hope all is good. Long story made short, I’ve (28 M) been in a long sexless three year streak by now.
I don’t consider myself an absolute 10 physically speaking, but I do feel attractive enough from that side.
But the fact is, when I broke up with my ex three years ago, I feel like I internalized some of the narc abuse from her.
Before I actually met her, I had this confidence to speak with any woman on my sight. Few years later, I’m barely getting back on track, trying to force a smile when speaking with women.
It feels that as much as I try to move on and get a hookup or a relationship, I never feel sufficient for some reason, so I always go back into porn. It’s like I’ve given up the idea that someone will find me attractive again, and that my sex life is definitely over by now, lol.
It definitely pisses me off since I know that probably she can easily find another guy to fuck with (double sense intended, lol). But I can’t even get some sweet love after surviving three years of problems related with my previous jobs and family issues.
Anyone else with a similar experience? Would love to know how you managed through!
submitted by /u/TrainingMushroom2641
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