Breeding kink gone too far? /u/PrettyDeadSpice Sex

Me and my bf are in our 20s and been together for 8 years. I’m not on birth control (used to be but caused hormonal issues) we used the withdrawal method mostly throughout our relationship. My bf has wanted us to have a baby (he has really bad baby fever) since nothing is stopping us financially and we have a place to live however I want to wait a few years preferably but if I accidentally got pregnant it would be okay for me. My bf said he’s ready whenever I am

The past couple of years he’s expressed he has a breeding kink and I liked the attention he gave me, every now and then I’d let him finish in me right before and right after my period so when I’m not fertile (I’m aware it’s still risky). Dumb of me I got lenient on this and there been times I have let him whilst ovulating, worry of pregnancy has gone as it’s never resulted in pregnancy. Bad of me Ik. I’ve started to wonder if there’s fertility issues.

He started feel guilty of finishing in me frequently as he wants a pregnancy and I don’t, on his own accord has stopped finishing in me. However I’ve noticed he now has a lack of interest in me sexually and I always have to ask him for sex. The times I notice he wants me is when I’m most fertile. (He says he senses it, and he’s right when I check the dates)

I think my partner is now only interested sexually if there’s a chance of pregnancy. I feel like I’ve fucked everything up and I’m not sure how to fix this.

I’ve been vocal about him losing interest but I have not mentioned whether it’s because I won’t give him a baby yet as he might feel hurt if I think that of him. Not really sure what to do as I really miss how things were.

Me and my bf are in our 20s and been together for 8 years. I’m not on birth control (used to be but caused hormonal issues) we used the withdrawal method mostly throughout our relationship. My bf has wanted us to have a baby (he has really bad baby fever) since nothing is stopping us financially and we have a place to live however I want to wait a few years preferably but if I accidentally got pregnant it would be okay for me. My bf said he’s ready whenever I am

The past couple of years he’s expressed he has a breeding kink and I liked the attention he gave me, every now and then I’d let him finish in me right before and right after my period so when I’m not fertile (I’m aware it’s still risky). Dumb of me I got lenient on this and there been times I have let him whilst ovulating, worry of pregnancy has gone as it’s never resulted in pregnancy. Bad of me Ik. I’ve started to wonder if there’s fertility issues.

He started feel guilty of finishing in me frequently as he wants a pregnancy and I don’t, on his own accord has stopped finishing in me. However I’ve noticed he now has a lack of interest in me sexually and I always have to ask him for sex. The times I notice he wants me is when I’m most fertile. (He says he senses it, and he’s right when I check the dates)

I think my partner is now only interested sexually if there’s a chance of pregnancy. I feel like I’ve fucked everything up and I’m not sure how to fix this.

I’ve been vocal about him losing interest but I have not mentioned whether it’s because I won’t give him a baby yet as he might feel hurt if I think that of him. Not really sure what to do as I really miss how things were.