Boyfriend is too anxious to have sex /u/mah3748 Sex

Me (22f) and my boyfriend (25m) have been together 2.5 years. Regular sex at first was great. But we haven’t had sex since July 2022. We live together and since we’ve moved in haven’t had any sex. I asked him if I’m the problem or if he’s just not attracted to me any more several times. I was 7 stone when we met and now I’m 11 stone so I’m really self conscious and body dysmorphic. Yesterday he told me that he feels self conscious and that’s why he wont initiate. He said he doesn’t feel good about his body and fears that he won’t perform well in bed because of his weight. We’re both unhappy in ourselves , do we wait until we’re both comfortable with our images or do I carry on trying to initiate because he won’t ? It makes me feel really rejected and worse about myself when I try because it’s not reciprocated.

Me (22f) and my boyfriend (25m) have been together 2.5 years. Regular sex at first was great. But we haven’t had sex since July 2022. We live together and since we’ve moved in haven’t had any sex. I asked him if I’m the problem or if he’s just not attracted to me any more several times. I was 7 stone when we met and now I’m 11 stone so I’m really self conscious and body dysmorphic. Yesterday he told me that he feels self conscious and that’s why he wont initiate. He said he doesn’t feel good about his body and fears that he won’t perform well in bed because of his weight. We’re both unhappy in ourselves , do we wait until we’re both comfortable with our images or do I carry on trying to initiate because he won’t ? It makes me feel really rejected and worse about myself when I try because it’s not reciprocated.