As a child, I was scared I would start stuttering and I actually became someone who stutters. The same anxiety plagues my sex life. How do I overcome this? /u/NumbTheFather Sex

Hey everyone, I think I’ll need to write the whole story to be able to get the most reliable answers and advice, and I’m honestly grateful to everyone who will read my story.

Firstly, my whole life I struggled with anxiety. As a child, I saw one of my peers stuttering and I was scared ‘what if I stutter’ I started stuttering since albeit I spoke normally until then. I’m 29 now and have been on anxiety meds for 9 years. My 20s especially have been hell, I have been through hell and back thanks to the meds. I never had sex.

When I was 12, I got hit in my groin area. Since then it registered in my mind that my penis wouldn’t work. When I tried masturbation for the first time I couldn’t cum. So I stopped trying masturbation altogether. But I have always had wet dreams. That is when I am unconscious and dream about having sex I could cum.

Upon seeing a urologist, he suggested I take an ultrasound scan. The scan results came back normal. Recently I took a Testosterone test, and my t-levels are normal (although in the lower side of ‘normal’). My psychiatrist, therapist, and urologist all said I’m perfectly fine and wanted me to try masturbation. I tried. But I am too “conscious” to successfully masturbate. I tried viagra and masturbating still I was unsuccessful.

Only when I am sleeping and have sex dreams do I cum. How do I overcome my anxiety? How do I shut off my consciousness and inner voice during sex? Is there any medication for this?

Hey everyone, I think I’ll need to write the whole story to be able to get the most reliable answers and advice, and I’m honestly grateful to everyone who will read my story.

Firstly, my whole life I struggled with anxiety. As a child, I saw one of my peers stuttering and I was scared ‘what if I stutter’ I started stuttering since albeit I spoke normally until then. I’m 29 now and have been on anxiety meds for 9 years. My 20s especially have been hell, I have been through hell and back thanks to the meds. I never had sex.

When I was 12, I got hit in my groin area. Since then it registered in my mind that my penis wouldn’t work. When I tried masturbation for the first time I couldn’t cum. So I stopped trying masturbation altogether. But I have always had wet dreams. That is when I am unconscious and dream about having sex I could cum.

Upon seeing a urologist, he suggested I take an ultrasound scan. The scan results came back normal. Recently I took a Testosterone test, and my t-levels are normal (although in the lower side of ‘normal’). My psychiatrist, therapist, and urologist all said I’m perfectly fine and wanted me to try masturbation. I tried. But I am too “conscious” to successfully masturbate. I tried viagra and masturbating still I was unsuccessful.

Only when I am sleeping and have sex dreams do I cum. How do I overcome my anxiety? How do I shut off my consciousness and inner voice during sex? Is there any medication for this?