Wife’s menopause 100% destroyed my pull-out game. /u/perv_griffin_69 Sex

My wife (52F) and I (52M) have always had regular sex in our relationship. She went through menopause a couple of years ago and while everyone warns you of the “changes” menopause brings, nobody mentions the possibility that some changes might be good ones.

One of the most noticeable changes is that her pussy feels significantly tighter. We use plenty of lube (fracturated coconut oil) and she uses a bullet vibe externally to help keep natural lubrication going so there’s no pain or discomfort.

I enjoy the powerful feelings of finishing outside/on her. She’s happy to let me do whatever: facial, in mouth, anywhere on her body, etc. Pre-menopause, I used to be able to pull out no problem – but that vice grip of a pussy feels so amazing that when I feel myself getting close, I always change my mind and finish as deep inside her as I can.

It’s gotten to the point where we laugh and joke about it. Just last night as we were getting ready for bed I told her “I’m totally gonna pull out tonight and finish on your face.” My wife’s reply “Of course that’s fine… but we’ll see.” I haven’t been able to bring myself to pull out in probably 2 years.

She does nothing else during sex to try and make me finish early or inside. She’s fully supportive of my pull-out wishes. But I am powerless against that tight, warm, perfectly shaped box. We have sex nightly so it’s not like I have to wait more than another day to finish inside her again. But right at the “time to pull out” stage my brain floods with FOMO and reminds me there’s no better feeling in the world than “filling my woman with my seed” even though I’ve had a vasectomy and she’s post menopausal.

I’m probably not gonna get a lot of sympathy for “complaining” about daily creampies in a very attractive woman’s vice-grip pussy. But the fact that I can’t bring myself to pull out any more is starting to bother me and get in my head a bit.

Any ideas on how I can reframe this mentally so I can once again pull out and enjoy the visuals of “marking my woman?”

My wife (52F) and I (52M) have always had regular sex in our relationship. She went through menopause a couple of years ago and while everyone warns you of the “changes” menopause brings, nobody mentions the possibility that some changes might be good ones.

One of the most noticeable changes is that her pussy feels significantly tighter. We use plenty of lube (fracturated coconut oil) and she uses a bullet vibe externally to help keep natural lubrication going so there’s no pain or discomfort.

I enjoy the powerful feelings of finishing outside/on her. She’s happy to let me do whatever: facial, in mouth, anywhere on her body, etc. Pre-menopause, I used to be able to pull out no problem – but that vice grip of a pussy feels so amazing that when I feel myself getting close, I always change my mind and finish as deep inside her as I can.

It’s gotten to the point where we laugh and joke about it. Just last night as we were getting ready for bed I told her “I’m totally gonna pull out tonight and finish on your face.” My wife’s reply “Of course that’s fine… but we’ll see.” I haven’t been able to bring myself to pull out in probably 2 years.

She does nothing else during sex to try and make me finish early or inside. She’s fully supportive of my pull-out wishes. But I am powerless against that tight, warm, perfectly shaped box. We have sex nightly so it’s not like I have to wait more than another day to finish inside her again. But right at the “time to pull out” stage my brain floods with FOMO and reminds me there’s no better feeling in the world than “filling my woman with my seed” even though I’ve had a vasectomy and she’s post menopausal.

I’m probably not gonna get a lot of sympathy for “complaining” about daily creampies in a very attractive woman’s vice-grip pussy. But the fact that I can’t bring myself to pull out any more is starting to bother me and get in my head a bit.

Any ideas on how I can reframe this mentally so I can once again pull out and enjoy the visuals of “marking my woman?”