My husband and I had great sex compatibility until we got married and got pregnant right away. I lost my sex drive on my 4th month and he started using my feet more and more to satisfy himself. I chose not to do it when I was pregnant because every time we would do it he would feel really concerned that he is somehow hurting the baby or me so I just chose to let sex go until given birth. I thought after birth, it would get better, but things got worse and we went months and months without sex. I went thru ppd and body image issues since i was really petite before pregnancy. We got therapy and talked about a lot of things and they came out (like now when we did it used to last a min and not consider my satisfaction, now he is trying and it has increased to 5 min, but I cant even tell you the last time he made me orgasm) I usually have to lie a about it because he gets extremely sad. we now resort to birth control pills because it wasn’t doing good on condoms but I always feel about putting my body through taking pills when we don’t even do it every day. I just got off my period and today he used my feet which was fine until he started sucking my toes, the way he licked them, i mean he doesnt even kiss me like that, or we have not made out in a long time. We have talked about this in therapy but everytime i bring it up he acts like he is doing all those things. when I brought up that I don’t want feet I want sex and the fact that he just chose feet today just because I got on my period and we haven’t done anything for the past week concerns me. Idk what to do i never thought i would bein this situation honestly
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r/sex My husband and I had great sex compatibility until we got married and got pregnant right away. I lost my sex drive on my 4th month and he started using my feet more and more to satisfy himself. I chose not to do it when I was pregnant because every time we would do it he would feel really concerned that he is somehow hurting the baby or me so I just chose to let sex go until given birth. I thought after birth, it would get better, but things got worse and we went months and months without sex. I went thru ppd and body image issues since i was really petite before pregnancy. We got therapy and talked about a lot of things and they came out (like now when we did it used to last a min and not consider my satisfaction, now he is trying and it has increased to 5 min, but I cant even tell you the last time he made me orgasm) I usually have to lie a about it because he gets extremely sad. we now resort to birth control pills because it wasn’t doing good on condoms but I always feel about putting my body through taking pills when we don’t even do it every day. I just got off my period and today he used my feet which was fine until he started sucking my toes, the way he licked them, i mean he doesnt even kiss me like that, or we have not made out in a long time. We have talked about this in therapy but everytime i bring it up he acts like he is doing all those things. when I brought up that I don’t want feet I want sex and the fact that he just chose feet today just because I got on my period and we haven’t done anything for the past week concerns me. Idk what to do i never thought i would bein this situation honestly submitted by /u/BigPal4567 [link] [comments]
My husband and I had great sex compatibility until we got married and got pregnant right away. I lost my sex drive on my 4th month and he started using my feet more and more to satisfy himself. I chose not to do it when I was pregnant because every time we would do it he would feel really concerned that he is somehow hurting the baby or me so I just chose to let sex go until given birth. I thought after birth, it would get better, but things got worse and we went months and months without sex. I went thru ppd and body image issues since i was really petite before pregnancy. We got therapy and talked about a lot of things and they came out (like now when we did it used to last a min and not consider my satisfaction, now he is trying and it has increased to 5 min, but I cant even tell you the last time he made me orgasm) I usually have to lie a about it because he gets extremely sad. we now resort to birth control pills because it wasn’t doing good on condoms but I always feel about putting my body through taking pills when we don’t even do it every day. I just got off my period and today he used my feet which was fine until he started sucking my toes, the way he licked them, i mean he doesnt even kiss me like that, or we have not made out in a long time. We have talked about this in therapy but everytime i bring it up he acts like he is doing all those things. when I brought up that I don’t want feet I want sex and the fact that he just chose feet today just because I got on my period and we haven’t done anything for the past week concerns me. Idk what to do i never thought i would bein this situation honestly
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