25M. I come way too quick. I can edge, but when I start again it takes like 10 seconds to be near orgasm and I have to stop again. Only thing that works is stop and do something completely different like giving oral but can only do that so much and it’s not very enjoyable to have penetration sex like that.
When I’m having sex I find myself also using my fantasy to make it even more sexy. It’s hard to control and it’s too damn effective. It’s a combination of visual and things to say.
It’s been a while since I had sex so can’t remember that well but it was stuff like: depending on the mood and vibe I would say it out loud too and it really turned my past partners on
“Yeah keep moaning like that, show me how much you’re enjoying it”
I rlly like this thought during missionary: “You’re all mine to use, you’re my little fuckdoll”
I think it also has to do with the fact that when I was much younger I usually wouldn’t masturbate to porn, but to my imagination because I could imagine a crush or a very hot scenario that would require searching through a pornsite for 15 minutes.
Also the fact that I always just tried to come as quick as possible when I masturbated because I just wanted to get rid of my horniness. I can literally put up a video and as soon as I’m hard I only need a minute to come. When having sex it takes a couple minutes more but not that much. I used to need at least double the time I need now.
Do you think I fucked up myself by masturbating the way I did when I was younger?
I’m not sure if it’s happening because of how insanely horny I make myself with my imagination when having sex or masturbating or because of how I did in the past.
Any tips for that to last longer (besides foreplay and changing positions)? Is stuff like Viagra relevant for my situation?
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r/sex 25M. I come way too quick. I can edge, but when I start again it takes like 10 seconds to be near orgasm and I have to stop again. Only thing that works is stop and do something completely different like giving oral but can only do that so much and it’s not very enjoyable to have penetration sex like that. When I’m having sex I find myself also using my fantasy to make it even more sexy. It’s hard to control and it’s too damn effective. It’s a combination of visual and things to say. It’s been a while since I had sex so can’t remember that well but it was stuff like: depending on the mood and vibe I would say it out loud too and it really turned my past partners on “Yeah keep moaning like that, show me how much you’re enjoying it” I rlly like this thought during missionary: “You’re all mine to use, you’re my little fuckdoll” I think it also has to do with the fact that when I was much younger I usually wouldn’t masturbate to porn, but to my imagination because I could imagine a crush or a very hot scenario that would require searching through a pornsite for 15 minutes. Also the fact that I always just tried to come as quick as possible when I masturbated because I just wanted to get rid of my horniness. I can literally put up a video and as soon as I’m hard I only need a minute to come. When having sex it takes a couple minutes more but not that much. I used to need at least double the time I need now. Do you think I fucked up myself by masturbating the way I did when I was younger? I’m not sure if it’s happening because of how insanely horny I make myself with my imagination when having sex or masturbating or because of how I did in the past. Any tips for that to last longer (besides foreplay and changing positions)? Is stuff like Viagra relevant for my situation? submitted by /u/SmokingBeneathStars [link] [comments]
25M. I come way too quick. I can edge, but when I start again it takes like 10 seconds to be near orgasm and I have to stop again. Only thing that works is stop and do something completely different like giving oral but can only do that so much and it’s not very enjoyable to have penetration sex like that.
When I’m having sex I find myself also using my fantasy to make it even more sexy. It’s hard to control and it’s too damn effective. It’s a combination of visual and things to say.
It’s been a while since I had sex so can’t remember that well but it was stuff like: depending on the mood and vibe I would say it out loud too and it really turned my past partners on
“Yeah keep moaning like that, show me how much you’re enjoying it”
I rlly like this thought during missionary: “You’re all mine to use, you’re my little fuckdoll”
I think it also has to do with the fact that when I was much younger I usually wouldn’t masturbate to porn, but to my imagination because I could imagine a crush or a very hot scenario that would require searching through a pornsite for 15 minutes.
Also the fact that I always just tried to come as quick as possible when I masturbated because I just wanted to get rid of my horniness. I can literally put up a video and as soon as I’m hard I only need a minute to come. When having sex it takes a couple minutes more but not that much. I used to need at least double the time I need now.
Do you think I fucked up myself by masturbating the way I did when I was younger?
I’m not sure if it’s happening because of how insanely horny I make myself with my imagination when having sex or masturbating or because of how I did in the past.
Any tips for that to last longer (besides foreplay and changing positions)? Is stuff like Viagra relevant for my situation?
submitted by /u/SmokingBeneathStars
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