ONS fingered me but no PIV /u/marievelous Sex

Hey everyone

I’m a 24F and I went to see a guy (25M) for a hookup for the first time. I’ve had ONS and casual sex before and 100% of the time, and in my previous experiences, the guy will finger me for a couple minutes, give no head, and then just go straight for PIV.

But this time around, this guy fingered me for about 20 mins, grinded on me with our underwear still on, and then proceeded to violently finger me for 2 hours. I tried giving him a handjob and BJ because I felt bad that he was doing all the work but he would move my hand and mouth away. And no PIV.

I’ve never had this happen to me before, and I was just wondering if anyone could explain this situation to me or as what he was thinking.

EDIT: I just want to include that it was not enjoyable. I was bleeding throughout the entire thing, and I’m pretty sure he knew. I was thinking maybe that’s why he didn’t want PIV because he saw that I was bleeding and might’ve been grossed out by it. But then why would he keep fingering me and not expect anything else. I also want to clarify that he was indeed hard throughout everything.

Hey everyone

I’m a 24F and I went to see a guy (25M) for a hookup for the first time. I’ve had ONS and casual sex before and 100% of the time, and in my previous experiences, the guy will finger me for a couple minutes, give no head, and then just go straight for PIV.

But this time around, this guy fingered me for about 20 mins, grinded on me with our underwear still on, and then proceeded to violently finger me for 2 hours. I tried giving him a handjob and BJ because I felt bad that he was doing all the work but he would move my hand and mouth away. And no PIV.

I’ve never had this happen to me before, and I was just wondering if anyone could explain this situation to me or as what he was thinking.

EDIT: I just want to include that it was not enjoyable. I was bleeding throughout the entire thing, and I’m pretty sure he knew. I was thinking maybe that’s why he didn’t want PIV because he saw that I was bleeding and might’ve been grossed out by it. But then why would he keep fingering me and not expect anything else. I also want to clarify that he was indeed hard throughout everything.