Need help on whether to let go of a FWB or reach back out /u/Delicious-Baby4572 Sex

Hello, let me give you some background information because I really need to explain myself for this to make sense.

Okay. I started talking to a guy and off the bat we were flirty I told him I didn’t want a bf because I just got out of a relationship and I just wanted to have fun. He agreed to this and said he wasn’t ready for a relationship either. We started hooking up. These hookups would be very enjoyable and we would often talk all night and have sleepovers. He would also hold my hand all night and beg me for a sleepover. I thought this was a little weird because I didn’t want to get attached but thankfully I didn’t.

He started getting flakey, we would go weeks without sex, and eventually, it felt like I was begging him to sleep with me. He promised me this wasn’t the case and that he wanted to… but it felt very one-sided. Eventually, he was taking longer to answer my texts. He told me he would “send me texts” and I wasn’t receiving them…. almost kind of gaslighting me into thinking I was the one ignoring him.

Last week I finally told him he was being ignorant and rude about lying about texting me/not asking me to hook up. He left me on delivered for nearly 24 hours… so I told him we were done and to delete my nudes. He then started to apologize and explain how he still wanted to have sex with me and he felt bad for making me feel bad….. I ignored it….. haven’t talked since the apology he sent…. should I just ghost this guy at this point if there is no consistent effort? I am looking to have fun and I thought he could give me that…. or should I maybe answer? Hear him out?

Sorry if this is long… I just hate feeling unwanted and disrespected like that… should I wait for him to reach out again?

Ps. I told him to delete my nudes and he said he didnt want to because he liked them….. and he stil hasnt deleted them even though I ignored.

Hello, let me give you some background information because I really need to explain myself for this to make sense.

Okay. I started talking to a guy and off the bat we were flirty I told him I didn’t want a bf because I just got out of a relationship and I just wanted to have fun. He agreed to this and said he wasn’t ready for a relationship either. We started hooking up. These hookups would be very enjoyable and we would often talk all night and have sleepovers. He would also hold my hand all night and beg me for a sleepover. I thought this was a little weird because I didn’t want to get attached but thankfully I didn’t.

He started getting flakey, we would go weeks without sex, and eventually, it felt like I was begging him to sleep with me. He promised me this wasn’t the case and that he wanted to… but it felt very one-sided. Eventually, he was taking longer to answer my texts. He told me he would “send me texts” and I wasn’t receiving them…. almost kind of gaslighting me into thinking I was the one ignoring him.

Last week I finally told him he was being ignorant and rude about lying about texting me/not asking me to hook up. He left me on delivered for nearly 24 hours… so I told him we were done and to delete my nudes. He then started to apologize and explain how he still wanted to have sex with me and he felt bad for making me feel bad….. I ignored it….. haven’t talked since the apology he sent…. should I just ghost this guy at this point if there is no consistent effort? I am looking to have fun and I thought he could give me that…. or should I maybe answer? Hear him out?

Sorry if this is long… I just hate feeling unwanted and disrespected like that… should I wait for him to reach out again?

Ps. I told him to delete my nudes and he said he didnt want to because he liked them….. and he stil hasnt deleted them even though I ignored.