My boyfriend said that sex didn’t do anything for him and now I’m worried it’s my fault /u/SecretAccount345_ Sex

So for some context he’s (18M) my (18F) first boyfriend, and first person I’ve done anything sexual with, I’m the same for him.

We’ve had sex a few times before, the last time being the first where he was able to finish. It didn’t take too long compared to the other times we tried before, so we were pretty happy about it.

We decided to do it again a couple nights ago, and I thought things were going okay because it seemed like both of us were enjoying ourselves, even though it was going longer than it had before I wasn’t too worried.

After awhile I could tell he was getting tired so I said that we could take a break for a minute, he said he was fine and just switched to fingering me, which led me finishing.

After that we just kind of sat there for a few minutes? I started to worry because he said that he actually hadn’t enjoyed it that much and just ended up tired and sweaty.

We didn’t talk on the drive back to my house and have just generally been weird the last couple days. I asked him if it was because I wasn’t good enough and he said no but idk he could’ve just said that to make me feel better?

If anyone has any insight into this that’d be great, idk if I could’ve done something to make it better or if I’m just overthinking? (I did look over the rules and FAQ so I hope I’m not breaking any)

So for some context he’s (18M) my (18F) first boyfriend, and first person I’ve done anything sexual with, I’m the same for him.

We’ve had sex a few times before, the last time being the first where he was able to finish. It didn’t take too long compared to the other times we tried before, so we were pretty happy about it.

We decided to do it again a couple nights ago, and I thought things were going okay because it seemed like both of us were enjoying ourselves, even though it was going longer than it had before I wasn’t too worried.

After awhile I could tell he was getting tired so I said that we could take a break for a minute, he said he was fine and just switched to fingering me, which led me finishing.

After that we just kind of sat there for a few minutes? I started to worry because he said that he actually hadn’t enjoyed it that much and just ended up tired and sweaty.

We didn’t talk on the drive back to my house and have just generally been weird the last couple days. I asked him if it was because I wasn’t good enough and he said no but idk he could’ve just said that to make me feel better?

If anyone has any insight into this that’d be great, idk if I could’ve done something to make it better or if I’m just overthinking? (I did look over the rules and FAQ so I hope I’m not breaking any)