My boyfriend used to be extremely fit: ripped body, lean face, insane stamina both physical and sexual, i.e. he used to be able to go multiple rounds in a row easily, do whatever bizarre positions our horny young minds would come up with, even with him literally lifting my whole body up and down his dick for minutes while standing like I barely weighed anything. But he’s been slowly gaining weight throughout the last couple of years, his muscles and facial features are becoming less and less defined, I even feel like his dick has become slightly smaller. He also runs out of breath sometimes now which never happened before, and he can rarely go for more than 2 rounds before he needs a break, though it isn’t as big of a deal as his overall attractiveness dropping for me. I’m still very much attracted to him, but I can definitely feel that it’s not as strong as it used to be, and I really dread to think about it on the longer term. I think the reason behind all this is he began often eating junk food, sometimes abusing alcohol with his friends and I also strongly suspect he’s doing drugs with them, although he denies it. He also doesn’t go to the gym as often anymore, I know because we used to go together every time, we actually first met at the gym, but now I go there alone half of the time, and he completely stopped using the treadmill at our place ever.
I’m honestly afraid to tell him any of that, I don’t want to offend him or sound unreasonably demanding, but I’m also really afraid of losing attraction to him more and more if this trend continues. I have no idea how to approach this, how he will react to it, I don’t even know if it’s morally correct to bring it up, because I feel ashamed to admit even to myself that I can be so shallow, but I can’t do anything about it, that’s just how my brain works. Please, someone give advice
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r/sex My boyfriend used to be extremely fit: ripped body, lean face, insane stamina both physical and sexual, i.e. he used to be able to go multiple rounds in a row easily, do whatever bizarre positions our horny young minds would come up with, even with him literally lifting my whole body up and down his dick for minutes while standing like I barely weighed anything. But he’s been slowly gaining weight throughout the last couple of years, his muscles and facial features are becoming less and less defined, I even feel like his dick has become slightly smaller. He also runs out of breath sometimes now which never happened before, and he can rarely go for more than 2 rounds before he needs a break, though it isn’t as big of a deal as his overall attractiveness dropping for me. I’m still very much attracted to him, but I can definitely feel that it’s not as strong as it used to be, and I really dread to think about it on the longer term. I think the reason behind all this is he began often eating junk food, sometimes abusing alcohol with his friends and I also strongly suspect he’s doing drugs with them, although he denies it. He also doesn’t go to the gym as often anymore, I know because we used to go together every time, we actually first met at the gym, but now I go there alone half of the time, and he completely stopped using the treadmill at our place ever. I’m honestly afraid to tell him any of that, I don’t want to offend him or sound unreasonably demanding, but I’m also really afraid of losing attraction to him more and more if this trend continues. I have no idea how to approach this, how he will react to it, I don’t even know if it’s morally correct to bring it up, because I feel ashamed to admit even to myself that I can be so shallow, but I can’t do anything about it, that’s just how my brain works. Please, someone give advice submitted by /u/ThrowRAbunnt [link] [comments]
My boyfriend used to be extremely fit: ripped body, lean face, insane stamina both physical and sexual, i.e. he used to be able to go multiple rounds in a row easily, do whatever bizarre positions our horny young minds would come up with, even with him literally lifting my whole body up and down his dick for minutes while standing like I barely weighed anything. But he’s been slowly gaining weight throughout the last couple of years, his muscles and facial features are becoming less and less defined, I even feel like his dick has become slightly smaller. He also runs out of breath sometimes now which never happened before, and he can rarely go for more than 2 rounds before he needs a break, though it isn’t as big of a deal as his overall attractiveness dropping for me. I’m still very much attracted to him, but I can definitely feel that it’s not as strong as it used to be, and I really dread to think about it on the longer term. I think the reason behind all this is he began often eating junk food, sometimes abusing alcohol with his friends and I also strongly suspect he’s doing drugs with them, although he denies it. He also doesn’t go to the gym as often anymore, I know because we used to go together every time, we actually first met at the gym, but now I go there alone half of the time, and he completely stopped using the treadmill at our place ever.
I’m honestly afraid to tell him any of that, I don’t want to offend him or sound unreasonably demanding, but I’m also really afraid of losing attraction to him more and more if this trend continues. I have no idea how to approach this, how he will react to it, I don’t even know if it’s morally correct to bring it up, because I feel ashamed to admit even to myself that I can be so shallow, but I can’t do anything about it, that’s just how my brain works. Please, someone give advice
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