I tried riding my fiancé while he slept and now I feel bad /u/definitelywillnot Sex

So he’s mentioned to me a few times in our relationship that the idea of me using him for my pleasure while he sleeps is a big turn on. I’ve woken him up from sleep a couple times to do sexy stuff but he always wakes up almost immediately. Tonight he didn’t. I took his boxers off, gave him head till he got hard enough, and then got on top. He stayed asleep the whole time. I tried to grab his chest, touch his face, kiss him to wake him up but he didn’t react. And it made me feel really gross, like I was taking advantage of him. I guess it’s hard for me to believe he was actually asleep through the whole thing so I don’t understand why he wasn’t interacting with me. Maybe he was asleep but if was actually sleep then i felt like i was violating him. I had to stop. I’ll talk to him about it in the morning but I’m not feeling great right now.

So he’s mentioned to me a few times in our relationship that the idea of me using him for my pleasure while he sleeps is a big turn on. I’ve woken him up from sleep a couple times to do sexy stuff but he always wakes up almost immediately. Tonight he didn’t. I took his boxers off, gave him head till he got hard enough, and then got on top. He stayed asleep the whole time. I tried to grab his chest, touch his face, kiss him to wake him up but he didn’t react. And it made me feel really gross, like I was taking advantage of him. I guess it’s hard for me to believe he was actually asleep through the whole thing so I don’t understand why he wasn’t interacting with me. Maybe he was asleep but if was actually sleep then i felt like i was violating him. I had to stop. I’ll talk to him about it in the morning but I’m not feeling great right now.