I feel like I can never have a good orgasm anymore /u/Throw-mylifefaraway Sex

I’m female, and whether it’s with my partner or alone, my orgasms always seem to fall flat or be weak. I used to have some fantastic orgasms, again both with partner or alone (especially alone but that’s prob most ladies??) But idk how to explain it’s just always anticlimactic and it’s starting to worry me. Like tonight, I fingered myself, and I used to be able feel the muscle tightening pretty tightly around my fingers, but this time it just felt weaker. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I overthinking it or could it be an actual issue? Maybe I should do kegels, but that would not explain why my clit is not as sensitive as it used to be either.

I’m female, and whether it’s with my partner or alone, my orgasms always seem to fall flat or be weak. I used to have some fantastic orgasms, again both with partner or alone (especially alone but that’s prob most ladies??) But idk how to explain it’s just always anticlimactic and it’s starting to worry me. Like tonight, I fingered myself, and I used to be able feel the muscle tightening pretty tightly around my fingers, but this time it just felt weaker. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I overthinking it or could it be an actual issue? Maybe I should do kegels, but that would not explain why my clit is not as sensitive as it used to be either.