First, I should say that I’ve that I’ve been masturbating in the same way since I first started, which is largely by squeezing my thights around my clenched fist – it never fails ro give me an orgasm, and it’s often very quick. I cannot orgasm any other way. Perhaps that’s fine, at least I can orgasm at all.
However, this not just a case of me not being able to masturbate in any different way – even when I cam really turned on, and I am very sure that I want to have sex or want to make myself come, if I touch my vulva, clit, etc. I feel absolutely nothing. Seriously, it is one of the least pleasurable palces for me to be touched – I get nicer sensations from someone stoking my forearm.
I also have (probably because of the lack of feeling there) real problems with penetration, even during sex. Maybe I could accept all this as a weird quirk of my anatomy – but I love being intimate with people. I love sex, I love being naked, love being touched. I beginning to explore my desires a bit more as I reach my late 20s, but it feels like there’s this massive failing in my body that’s stopping me from enjoying things and feeling pleasure. It’s so disheartening.
I just can’t work out what’s wrong. Could it be physical or psychological trauma? Have I over-masturbated in a particular way? Or am I just not doing something right?
(Edited for annoying typos)
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r/sex First, I should say that I’ve that I’ve been masturbating in the same way since I first started, which is largely by squeezing my thights around my clenched fist – it never fails ro give me an orgasm, and it’s often very quick. I cannot orgasm any other way. Perhaps that’s fine, at least I can orgasm at all. However, this not just a case of me not being able to masturbate in any different way – even when I cam really turned on, and I am very sure that I want to have sex or want to make myself come, if I touch my vulva, clit, etc. I feel absolutely nothing. Seriously, it is one of the least pleasurable palces for me to be touched – I get nicer sensations from someone stoking my forearm. I also have (probably because of the lack of feeling there) real problems with penetration, even during sex. Maybe I could accept all this as a weird quirk of my anatomy – but I love being intimate with people. I love sex, I love being naked, love being touched. I beginning to explore my desires a bit more as I reach my late 20s, but it feels like there’s this massive failing in my body that’s stopping me from enjoying things and feeling pleasure. It’s so disheartening. I just can’t work out what’s wrong. Could it be physical or psychological trauma? Have I over-masturbated in a particular way? Or am I just not doing something right? (Edited for annoying typos) submitted by /u/Cautious-River9363 [link] [comments]
First, I should say that I’ve that I’ve been masturbating in the same way since I first started, which is largely by squeezing my thights around my clenched fist – it never fails ro give me an orgasm, and it’s often very quick. I cannot orgasm any other way. Perhaps that’s fine, at least I can orgasm at all.
However, this not just a case of me not being able to masturbate in any different way – even when I cam really turned on, and I am very sure that I want to have sex or want to make myself come, if I touch my vulva, clit, etc. I feel absolutely nothing. Seriously, it is one of the least pleasurable palces for me to be touched – I get nicer sensations from someone stoking my forearm.
I also have (probably because of the lack of feeling there) real problems with penetration, even during sex. Maybe I could accept all this as a weird quirk of my anatomy – but I love being intimate with people. I love sex, I love being naked, love being touched. I beginning to explore my desires a bit more as I reach my late 20s, but it feels like there’s this massive failing in my body that’s stopping me from enjoying things and feeling pleasure. It’s so disheartening.
I just can’t work out what’s wrong. Could it be physical or psychological trauma? Have I over-masturbated in a particular way? Or am I just not doing something right?
(Edited for annoying typos)
submitted by /u/Cautious-River9363
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