Basically title.
Yesterday, I found out that my HSV-1 has an outbreak. I have told her this and she said she also had it. She didn’t disclose this to me when we started having sex, but as 2 out of 3 people have HSV-1 globally (source: WHO), I personally don’t consider this a big deal. The stigma is worse than the actual virus in my opinion. Anyway…
Afterwards, she mentioned that she had a HSV-2 outbreak when she was 12, which was 11 years ago. She explicitely said that she has not had it since and now has a small scar somewhere around her genitals (however, I have not seen it). I felt a bit broken due to this, as she was the one who asked me “are you clean?” when we started having sex. Personally, this implies that the person who asks this is clean as well. Right?
Am I in the wrong for feeling a bit pissed and broken? We have a good chemistry and good sex, but I feel like she has betrayed my trust a bit. We have spoken a little bit yesterday about this and plan on doing that today as well. I want her and me to take a STD test just in case. I just want some other opinions.
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r/sex Basically title. Yesterday, I found out that my HSV-1 has an outbreak. I have told her this and she said she also had it. She didn’t disclose this to me when we started having sex, but as 2 out of 3 people have HSV-1 globally (source: WHO), I personally don’t consider this a big deal. The stigma is worse than the actual virus in my opinion. Anyway… Afterwards, she mentioned that she had a HSV-2 outbreak when she was 12, which was 11 years ago. She explicitely said that she has not had it since and now has a small scar somewhere around her genitals (however, I have not seen it). I felt a bit broken due to this, as she was the one who asked me “are you clean?” when we started having sex. Personally, this implies that the person who asks this is clean as well. Right? Am I in the wrong for feeling a bit pissed and broken? We have a good chemistry and good sex, but I feel like she has betrayed my trust a bit. We have spoken a little bit yesterday about this and plan on doing that today as well. I want her and me to take a STD test just in case. I just want some other opinions. submitted by /u/throwaway18236454 [link] [comments]
Basically title.
Yesterday, I found out that my HSV-1 has an outbreak. I have told her this and she said she also had it. She didn’t disclose this to me when we started having sex, but as 2 out of 3 people have HSV-1 globally (source: WHO), I personally don’t consider this a big deal. The stigma is worse than the actual virus in my opinion. Anyway…
Afterwards, she mentioned that she had a HSV-2 outbreak when she was 12, which was 11 years ago. She explicitely said that she has not had it since and now has a small scar somewhere around her genitals (however, I have not seen it). I felt a bit broken due to this, as she was the one who asked me “are you clean?” when we started having sex. Personally, this implies that the person who asks this is clean as well. Right?
Am I in the wrong for feeling a bit pissed and broken? We have a good chemistry and good sex, but I feel like she has betrayed my trust a bit. We have spoken a little bit yesterday about this and plan on doing that today as well. I want her and me to take a STD test just in case. I just want some other opinions.
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