I’ve never posted in here so sorry if this is all weird or too much idk. For context I’m 22 and my bf is 27, we met in July of last year. before we met I was a virgin and he’s the only person I’ve ever had sex with. He used to be really into sex when we first met but he was drinking super heavily so that made things a lil difficult, now he has been clean since December and on antidepressants (Zoloft) and we’ve been living together since. Besides a blowjob here and there he’s never in the mood. It’s been almost 2 months since we’ve had sex and tbh the last time we did anything it felt like I was forcing it. I’m sure he knows I want it cause pretty much everytime I blow him I ask if he’d like to have sex and he usually says “maybe” and we just kinda end up continuing on with the bj until he cums. I didn’t think going this long without it would bother me since I was a virgin for quite some time but I’m thinking of asking if he’d be okay with sort of an open relationship. I love him and I’m extremely proud of him for getting sober, I really only want to be with him but until we can figure something out I feel like we’re both young and at least I feel like I’m missing out on so much with him being my only sexual partner ever when he’s been with several girls in the past. It just seems rude of me to ask since I know being on antidepressants can lower your libido and it’s not really his fault.
Tldr: my bf is on antidepressants and doesn’t wanna have sex anymore and I’m thinking of asking for an open relationship.
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r/sex I’ve never posted in here so sorry if this is all weird or too much idk. For context I’m 22 and my bf is 27, we met in July of last year. before we met I was a virgin and he’s the only person I’ve ever had sex with. He used to be really into sex when we first met but he was drinking super heavily so that made things a lil difficult, now he has been clean since December and on antidepressants (Zoloft) and we’ve been living together since. Besides a blowjob here and there he’s never in the mood. It’s been almost 2 months since we’ve had sex and tbh the last time we did anything it felt like I was forcing it. I’m sure he knows I want it cause pretty much everytime I blow him I ask if he’d like to have sex and he usually says “maybe” and we just kinda end up continuing on with the bj until he cums. I didn’t think going this long without it would bother me since I was a virgin for quite some time but I’m thinking of asking if he’d be okay with sort of an open relationship. I love him and I’m extremely proud of him for getting sober, I really only want to be with him but until we can figure something out I feel like we’re both young and at least I feel like I’m missing out on so much with him being my only sexual partner ever when he’s been with several girls in the past. It just seems rude of me to ask since I know being on antidepressants can lower your libido and it’s not really his fault. Tldr: my bf is on antidepressants and doesn’t wanna have sex anymore and I’m thinking of asking for an open relationship. submitted by /u/Retsifp13 [link] [comments]
I’ve never posted in here so sorry if this is all weird or too much idk. For context I’m 22 and my bf is 27, we met in July of last year. before we met I was a virgin and he’s the only person I’ve ever had sex with. He used to be really into sex when we first met but he was drinking super heavily so that made things a lil difficult, now he has been clean since December and on antidepressants (Zoloft) and we’ve been living together since. Besides a blowjob here and there he’s never in the mood. It’s been almost 2 months since we’ve had sex and tbh the last time we did anything it felt like I was forcing it. I’m sure he knows I want it cause pretty much everytime I blow him I ask if he’d like to have sex and he usually says “maybe” and we just kinda end up continuing on with the bj until he cums. I didn’t think going this long without it would bother me since I was a virgin for quite some time but I’m thinking of asking if he’d be okay with sort of an open relationship. I love him and I’m extremely proud of him for getting sober, I really only want to be with him but until we can figure something out I feel like we’re both young and at least I feel like I’m missing out on so much with him being my only sexual partner ever when he’s been with several girls in the past. It just seems rude of me to ask since I know being on antidepressants can lower your libido and it’s not really his fault.
Tldr: my bf is on antidepressants and doesn’t wanna have sex anymore and I’m thinking of asking for an open relationship.
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