Should i let my girlfriend sleep with another man? /u/ThrowRA101ARworhT Sex

The title may be a little off-putting and to some standards, the easy answer would normally be “No” as some would say it’s a sign of cheating, disloyalty, and/or distrustfulness. This would all be true if it weren’t something I was turned on by and asked about. In the current situation with my girlfriend, she’s been away for college for a couple of months now, she and I have been together for about a couple of years. At this point, we’re very comfortable with each other, especially intimately. Since our growing intimacy we have been very open about our kinks and desires, even some from our past. I personally brought up the idea of cuckoldry/cuckolding, since she’s away and we personally can’t do anything with each other, as well as it being an interest of mine when I was younger. I brought it up as a suggestion, as a result, she said she would be willing to do it as long as I’m comfortable with it

This starts to ignite my interest in it again. Since the beginning of asking her, I’ve never been more turned on by anything like it, which might be an exaggeration. I’ve never had it happen before, but I am willing to let it happen. Eventually we start talking about it more, about how it would happen, how she would get someone, how everything would be set up, etc… This started to cover everything including specifically what will happen afterward. She promised that anything that would happen wouldn’t be personal and I would always come first, that no matter what we would be ok. I promised her the same thing, but as of lately I’m starting to have fears about what may happen.

I do want to go through with this, but at the same time I’m worried about the outcome. I’ve talked to her about this, bringing up that it is completely my decision. It does turn us on, it’s an interest to both of us now, but I fear that in the midst of her doing it with someone else whether it be in the process, afterward, or in the future things may have a negative effect. I want to keep her in my life, and I’m requesting that anyone could give me any advice, second opinions, or constructive criticism to help me figure out if it’s ok to go through with this or if I shouldn’t

I did post this elsewhere and this is a copy and paste because I didn’t receive any help or advice

The title may be a little off-putting and to some standards, the easy answer would normally be “No” as some would say it’s a sign of cheating, disloyalty, and/or distrustfulness. This would all be true if it weren’t something I was turned on by and asked about. In the current situation with my girlfriend, she’s been away for college for a couple of months now, she and I have been together for about a couple of years. At this point, we’re very comfortable with each other, especially intimately. Since our growing intimacy we have been very open about our kinks and desires, even some from our past. I personally brought up the idea of cuckoldry/cuckolding, since she’s away and we personally can’t do anything with each other, as well as it being an interest of mine when I was younger. I brought it up as a suggestion, as a result, she said she would be willing to do it as long as I’m comfortable with it

This starts to ignite my interest in it again. Since the beginning of asking her, I’ve never been more turned on by anything like it, which might be an exaggeration. I’ve never had it happen before, but I am willing to let it happen. Eventually we start talking about it more, about how it would happen, how she would get someone, how everything would be set up, etc… This started to cover everything including specifically what will happen afterward. She promised that anything that would happen wouldn’t be personal and I would always come first, that no matter what we would be ok. I promised her the same thing, but as of lately I’m starting to have fears about what may happen.

I do want to go through with this, but at the same time I’m worried about the outcome. I’ve talked to her about this, bringing up that it is completely my decision. It does turn us on, it’s an interest to both of us now, but I fear that in the midst of her doing it with someone else whether it be in the process, afterward, or in the future things may have a negative effect. I want to keep her in my life, and I’m requesting that anyone could give me any advice, second opinions, or constructive criticism to help me figure out if it’s ok to go through with this or if I shouldn’t

I did post this elsewhere and this is a copy and paste because I didn’t receive any help or advice