Last night I (f 30) had sex for the first time with someone (m 27). It lasted for about 2-3 hours and he didn’t even end up finishing, which I felt bad about, but I was in pain and had to tap out. (Also women also don’t always finish either sooooo 🤷🏼♀️) He said he always goes that long and that he usually goes longer(?!) I’m very good at what I do, and pulled out all the stops, and he definitely was enjoying himself. But holy crap, it was just like endless. Why do some people prioritize quantity over quality? I’m perfectly fine with a 30 minute passionate session, or 2-3 smaller sessions, not an hours long one that drags out and doesn’t even feel thattt great. We drank a tiny bit beforehand.
I’m in pain today and icing. I feel frustrated and sort of guilty, ugh. It also hurts my ego a little, even though he said he always goes that long. Has anyone dealt with this before?!
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r/sex Last night I (f 30) had sex for the first time with someone (m 27). It lasted for about 2-3 hours and he didn’t even end up finishing, which I felt bad about, but I was in pain and had to tap out. (Also women also don’t always finish either sooooo 🤷🏼♀️) He said he always goes that long and that he usually goes longer(?!) I’m very good at what I do, and pulled out all the stops, and he definitely was enjoying himself. But holy crap, it was just like endless. Why do some people prioritize quantity over quality? I’m perfectly fine with a 30 minute passionate session, or 2-3 smaller sessions, not an hours long one that drags out and doesn’t even feel thattt great. We drank a tiny bit beforehand. I’m in pain today and icing. I feel frustrated and sort of guilty, ugh. It also hurts my ego a little, even though he said he always goes that long. Has anyone dealt with this before?! submitted by /u/Rose_Cole_9 [link] [comments]
Last night I (f 30) had sex for the first time with someone (m 27). It lasted for about 2-3 hours and he didn’t even end up finishing, which I felt bad about, but I was in pain and had to tap out. (Also women also don’t always finish either sooooo 🤷🏼♀️) He said he always goes that long and that he usually goes longer(?!) I’m very good at what I do, and pulled out all the stops, and he definitely was enjoying himself. But holy crap, it was just like endless. Why do some people prioritize quantity over quality? I’m perfectly fine with a 30 minute passionate session, or 2-3 smaller sessions, not an hours long one that drags out and doesn’t even feel thattt great. We drank a tiny bit beforehand.
I’m in pain today and icing. I feel frustrated and sort of guilty, ugh. It also hurts my ego a little, even though he said he always goes that long. Has anyone dealt with this before?!
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