My girlfriend said she would find it hot to watch me have sex with a slimmer woman? /u/4219TV Sex

My girlfriend said she would find it hot to watch me have sex with another woman. We are both 28. I’ve told her I wouldn’t be happy if it was the other way around, and she is fine with that and has never even hinted at anything like that.. so I don’t think its because she wants to fuck other men at all.

I asked why she wouldn’t be jealous or anything and she said she would be jealous if I cheated on her, but she said if it was a girl that she agreed on who is hot and has a slim body, then it would be a massive turn on for her.

She wouldnt want us kissing or being intimate in missionary or anything like that.. but she said me fucking her in doggy style or something would be hot to watch. In my opinion though, it wouldnt just be doggy style, and even if it was it would still be intimate for me because id be fucking a girl and making her moan and Id probably enjoy it purely because it would be something new, and then it would make me feel bad or worry her. I could do it without her watching if I had no emotional connection to whoever it was, but that would be cheating and I really don’t like anything like that.. but with her watching I would also just feel really bad and I tried to explain to her that I would feel like if I was enjoying it then she might think why doesn’t he fuck me like that or something.. when in reality it would just be because its a new girl and exciting ect.

My girlfriend is a curvy girl as well and that doesn’t bother me at all apart from just health reasons to a certain extent, but it bothers her a lot and she has always been a very very horny girl almost all of the time, and loves sex, and we have it at least 3-4 times per week.. but I find it strange that she would find it a turn on to watch me fuck another girl infront of her.. and she said only if it was a slim girl that she finds sexy. It just sounds like she is projecting something and I dont know if this is something where Im supposed to be happy because it means I can fuck another girl while she is watching or if I should just never even try that just incase it does go differently to how she imagines? Maybe its something I should wait for and see if she still wants to do that when she is happy with her own body? Its not something I really want at the moment or think about a lot, but I obviously wouldnt complain much if I could have sex with another woman without feeling bad and she enjoyed it. I just feel like it would be awkward or make me feel bad to be doing it directly infront of her and then it could turn into something that would really ruin our relationship even if it didnt mean anything to me.

This isn’t something she is pressuring or asking me to do a lot or right now either. Its just something that we had a conversation about. She says its not cheating if she wants to watch it though and I get that. It just seems like a bad idea. Any thoughts?

My girlfriend said she would find it hot to watch me have sex with another woman. We are both 28. I’ve told her I wouldn’t be happy if it was the other way around, and she is fine with that and has never even hinted at anything like that.. so I don’t think its because she wants to fuck other men at all.

I asked why she wouldn’t be jealous or anything and she said she would be jealous if I cheated on her, but she said if it was a girl that she agreed on who is hot and has a slim body, then it would be a massive turn on for her.

She wouldnt want us kissing or being intimate in missionary or anything like that.. but she said me fucking her in doggy style or something would be hot to watch. In my opinion though, it wouldnt just be doggy style, and even if it was it would still be intimate for me because id be fucking a girl and making her moan and Id probably enjoy it purely because it would be something new, and then it would make me feel bad or worry her. I could do it without her watching if I had no emotional connection to whoever it was, but that would be cheating and I really don’t like anything like that.. but with her watching I would also just feel really bad and I tried to explain to her that I would feel like if I was enjoying it then she might think why doesn’t he fuck me like that or something.. when in reality it would just be because its a new girl and exciting ect.

My girlfriend is a curvy girl as well and that doesn’t bother me at all apart from just health reasons to a certain extent, but it bothers her a lot and she has always been a very very horny girl almost all of the time, and loves sex, and we have it at least 3-4 times per week.. but I find it strange that she would find it a turn on to watch me fuck another girl infront of her.. and she said only if it was a slim girl that she finds sexy. It just sounds like she is projecting something and I dont know if this is something where Im supposed to be happy because it means I can fuck another girl while she is watching or if I should just never even try that just incase it does go differently to how she imagines? Maybe its something I should wait for and see if she still wants to do that when she is happy with her own body? Its not something I really want at the moment or think about a lot, but I obviously wouldnt complain much if I could have sex with another woman without feeling bad and she enjoyed it. I just feel like it would be awkward or make me feel bad to be doing it directly infront of her and then it could turn into something that would really ruin our relationship even if it didnt mean anything to me.

This isn’t something she is pressuring or asking me to do a lot or right now either. Its just something that we had a conversation about. She says its not cheating if she wants to watch it though and I get that. It just seems like a bad idea. Any thoughts?