I’ve (F 29) have been with my boyfriend (M 33) for about 9 months now. In the beginning when we weren’t official we had the greatest sex ever. Granted we’d only see each other once a month or twice a month if I was lucky. Over time we increased the time we were spending to every other week with the sex still being great.
However, once we became official and started seeing each other multiple times throughout the week the sex significantly dropped. Which is weird to me because I had told him from the beginning that I have a very high libido and I enjoy having sex with him, he’s literally amazing to me. He also said he had a high libido and can go for awhile and multiple times. But since we’ve been seeing each other more often I haven’t seen that at all on his end. He can go days without making a move or acknowledging mine. I find myself asking for sex almost every other day with promises of getting some later and it never comes. I have talked to him about it and how I really enjoy sex with him but I never ever want to pressure him. And he usually responds that he doesn’t feel pressured. But then why is it most times when I ask, it almost always isn’t happening? He keeps making excuses and I’m not sure why (and yes I did ask why but no real answer)
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r/sex I’ve (F 29) have been with my boyfriend (M 33) for about 9 months now. In the beginning when we weren’t official we had the greatest sex ever. Granted we’d only see each other once a month or twice a month if I was lucky. Over time we increased the time we were spending to every other week with the sex still being great. However, once we became official and started seeing each other multiple times throughout the week the sex significantly dropped. Which is weird to me because I had told him from the beginning that I have a very high libido and I enjoy having sex with him, he’s literally amazing to me. He also said he had a high libido and can go for awhile and multiple times. But since we’ve been seeing each other more often I haven’t seen that at all on his end. He can go days without making a move or acknowledging mine. I find myself asking for sex almost every other day with promises of getting some later and it never comes. I have talked to him about it and how I really enjoy sex with him but I never ever want to pressure him. And he usually responds that he doesn’t feel pressured. But then why is it most times when I ask, it almost always isn’t happening? He keeps making excuses and I’m not sure why (and yes I did ask why but no real answer) submitted by /u/throwdatassinacirxle [link] [comments]
I’ve (F 29) have been with my boyfriend (M 33) for about 9 months now. In the beginning when we weren’t official we had the greatest sex ever. Granted we’d only see each other once a month or twice a month if I was lucky. Over time we increased the time we were spending to every other week with the sex still being great.
However, once we became official and started seeing each other multiple times throughout the week the sex significantly dropped. Which is weird to me because I had told him from the beginning that I have a very high libido and I enjoy having sex with him, he’s literally amazing to me. He also said he had a high libido and can go for awhile and multiple times. But since we’ve been seeing each other more often I haven’t seen that at all on his end. He can go days without making a move or acknowledging mine. I find myself asking for sex almost every other day with promises of getting some later and it never comes. I have talked to him about it and how I really enjoy sex with him but I never ever want to pressure him. And he usually responds that he doesn’t feel pressured. But then why is it most times when I ask, it almost always isn’t happening? He keeps making excuses and I’m not sure why (and yes I did ask why but no real answer)
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