Last week we were cuddling and I was on my period so I didn’t want to do anything in that moment and we got into a conversation and he told me I have one of the cleanest private parts he’s ever been with etc. he always wants to go down on me even though I’m insecure about it, tells me he loves the smell and taste, etc.
Well a few months ago we broke up but continued hanging and chatting to work things out and that included sleeping together. He never mentioned anything at the time but long story short we were in an argument a few days ago and he told me the reason he went to go get tested months ago was because I was “off” down there and he thought I slept with someone else. So I asked him what he meant and he said during sex the smell was “putrid”. This threw me off because I think I would’ve noticed something like that if it was that bad…I’m insecure as it is so I always make sure I’m clean and am good with my hygiene. I know I was dealing with a UTI on and off during this time so it could’ve been from that but now I’m just bothered by that comment.
I don’t know if I’m overreacting but that made me feel insecure and wonder how many other times maybe there’s been a smell and he never said anything? I asked him this and he said I was overthinking it and it was only one time and it wasn’t like me that’s why he was worried and got tested.
How do I approach this and stop feeling insecure and overthinking it now? Do I just drop it?
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r/sex Last week we were cuddling and I was on my period so I didn’t want to do anything in that moment and we got into a conversation and he told me I have one of the cleanest private parts he’s ever been with etc. he always wants to go down on me even though I’m insecure about it, tells me he loves the smell and taste, etc. Well a few months ago we broke up but continued hanging and chatting to work things out and that included sleeping together. He never mentioned anything at the time but long story short we were in an argument a few days ago and he told me the reason he went to go get tested months ago was because I was “off” down there and he thought I slept with someone else. So I asked him what he meant and he said during sex the smell was “putrid”. This threw me off because I think I would’ve noticed something like that if it was that bad…I’m insecure as it is so I always make sure I’m clean and am good with my hygiene. I know I was dealing with a UTI on and off during this time so it could’ve been from that but now I’m just bothered by that comment. I don’t know if I’m overreacting but that made me feel insecure and wonder how many other times maybe there’s been a smell and he never said anything? I asked him this and he said I was overthinking it and it was only one time and it wasn’t like me that’s why he was worried and got tested. How do I approach this and stop feeling insecure and overthinking it now? Do I just drop it? submitted by /u/helloookitty25 [link] [comments]
Last week we were cuddling and I was on my period so I didn’t want to do anything in that moment and we got into a conversation and he told me I have one of the cleanest private parts he’s ever been with etc. he always wants to go down on me even though I’m insecure about it, tells me he loves the smell and taste, etc.
Well a few months ago we broke up but continued hanging and chatting to work things out and that included sleeping together. He never mentioned anything at the time but long story short we were in an argument a few days ago and he told me the reason he went to go get tested months ago was because I was “off” down there and he thought I slept with someone else. So I asked him what he meant and he said during sex the smell was “putrid”. This threw me off because I think I would’ve noticed something like that if it was that bad…I’m insecure as it is so I always make sure I’m clean and am good with my hygiene. I know I was dealing with a UTI on and off during this time so it could’ve been from that but now I’m just bothered by that comment.
I don’t know if I’m overreacting but that made me feel insecure and wonder how many other times maybe there’s been a smell and he never said anything? I asked him this and he said I was overthinking it and it was only one time and it wasn’t like me that’s why he was worried and got tested.
How do I approach this and stop feeling insecure and overthinking it now? Do I just drop it?
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