GF has TMJ so no blowjobs. Solutions? /u/homorob0tic Sex

Now I’m not necessarily trying to find a solution to her tmj. If this is how the cookie crumbles then I guess this is how it is. I don’t want her to be in pain for my pleasure if that’s not one of her kinks lol

My thing is I haven’t gotten a full blowjob since we started dating. We are about to move in with each other in a few days and this like looming feeling of never getting another blowjob as long as I live is honestly KILLING me

Fwiw I’m very assertive and dominant in the bedroom and usually I’m the one doing all the work. It’s fine like that because I do love control in that setting, but it has me bummed out that there’s no bjs. Sometimes I feel like I deserve to just sit back and not do anything but get serviced u know?

I guess we could get some toys, so far every flesh light type thing has felt super underwhelming to me though. And honestly seems more depressing than not ever getting blown again.

Fwiw she does try to give me a little bit of oral in foreplay but never longer than a minute, tops.

So idk what to do, maybe there’s some sort of thing we will both like that makes me not even miss blowjobs? Though for me that starts to get into kink territory that we haven’t really discussed but I don’t totally know she’s on board for.

Anyways I love my girlfriend and I don’t want to put her in any weird position. I also don’t want to be day dreaming of blowjobs the rest of my life either lol

Now I’m not necessarily trying to find a solution to her tmj. If this is how the cookie crumbles then I guess this is how it is. I don’t want her to be in pain for my pleasure if that’s not one of her kinks lol

My thing is I haven’t gotten a full blowjob since we started dating. We are about to move in with each other in a few days and this like looming feeling of never getting another blowjob as long as I live is honestly KILLING me

Fwiw I’m very assertive and dominant in the bedroom and usually I’m the one doing all the work. It’s fine like that because I do love control in that setting, but it has me bummed out that there’s no bjs. Sometimes I feel like I deserve to just sit back and not do anything but get serviced u know?

I guess we could get some toys, so far every flesh light type thing has felt super underwhelming to me though. And honestly seems more depressing than not ever getting blown again.

Fwiw she does try to give me a little bit of oral in foreplay but never longer than a minute, tops.

So idk what to do, maybe there’s some sort of thing we will both like that makes me not even miss blowjobs? Though for me that starts to get into kink territory that we haven’t really discussed but I don’t totally know she’s on board for.

Anyways I love my girlfriend and I don’t want to put her in any weird position. I also don’t want to be day dreaming of blowjobs the rest of my life either lol