Before you attempt to insert your fingers into someone’s vagina, read this post if you have not received any feedback on fingering before. It does not matter how good you believe you are at pleasing women. Although I was not interested in hooking up with him, I should have followed my instincts. However, he has been persistently pursuing me for nearly two years, and I decided to give him a chance. I have been single for almost two years, and he has expressed sexual interest in me, but I have not reciprocated. I did not expect to have a pleasant experience with him, and I was not turned on by him in any way. I also suspected he would be the type of heterosexual male in bed who does not perform oral sex but expects it. Yesterday, for some reason, I decided to meet him and give him a chance. I hesitated because I was concerned that he would be determined to have sex, but I just wanted to hang out and connect. Follow your instincts and do not be like me. He came to my place, and we went for a walk, had a meal, and had a good conversation. I thought that maybe I had the wrong impression of him. I believed that he valued the time spent hanging out and conversing and would not be sexual during our first encounter. It was late (2-3 am), and we were by the lake when he started kissing me. I was not enthusiastic, but I tried to let it flow for a bit. He undid my bra and put his hand down my pants while sucking my nipples. I was uncomfortable mainly because it was not stimulating for me, and I did not want to be fondled outdoors at 2:30 in the morning. So, I suggested that we go back to the car. We walked back to the car, and despite my lack of enthusiasm, I decided to give in. I had had little to no sex in years, and I thought it might be worthwhile to let go and get some sexual gratification. He started fingering me in the back seat. I am not particularly keen on being fingered, but I let it continue because it felt good initially. However, he quickly turned up the intensity and fingered me quite aggressively. I tried to pull his hand away, but he was too into it. He did not stop. He kept trying to shove multiple fingers inside, but it would not fit. It was painful. He was fingering me hard and fast, thinking he was simultaneously rubbing my clitoris, but he was rubbing my urethra. The moments of actual pleasure were not worth the pain, forcefulness, and lack of skill. When I told him “I can’t take this,” he finally stopped. He wanted to have sex, but I declined because we did not have condoms, and he thought he would be unable to pull out. He drove me back to my place, and when I got out of the car, it was painful to walk. When I attempted to pee, it was excruciating. I screamed in pain. The next morning, I looked at my vagina with my selfie camera and noticed that there were literal flaps and bits of skin hanging from my labia and urethra. I had several cuts and was bleeding from all of them. I have no idea what damage he did inside my vagina. It hurts to sit, and my vagina is swollen. I am angry that there are probably many other vaginas that have been and are being similarly brutalized. We are too grown for this. He is too old to be this bad at fingering a woman.
Men: Please, for the love of God, be gentle. It is a soft, delicate, tender vagina. It is not made of steel.
submitted by /u/KittyPushie69
[link] [comments]
r/sex Before you attempt to insert your fingers into someone’s vagina, read this post if you have not received any feedback on fingering before. It does not matter how good you believe you are at pleasing women. Although I was not interested in hooking up with him, I should have followed my instincts. However, he has been persistently pursuing me for nearly two years, and I decided to give him a chance. I have been single for almost two years, and he has expressed sexual interest in me, but I have not reciprocated. I did not expect to have a pleasant experience with him, and I was not turned on by him in any way. I also suspected he would be the type of heterosexual male in bed who does not perform oral sex but expects it. Yesterday, for some reason, I decided to meet him and give him a chance. I hesitated because I was concerned that he would be determined to have sex, but I just wanted to hang out and connect. Follow your instincts and do not be like me. He came to my place, and we went for a walk, had a meal, and had a good conversation. I thought that maybe I had the wrong impression of him. I believed that he valued the time spent hanging out and conversing and would not be sexual during our first encounter. It was late (2-3 am), and we were by the lake when he started kissing me. I was not enthusiastic, but I tried to let it flow for a bit. He undid my bra and put his hand down my pants while sucking my nipples. I was uncomfortable mainly because it was not stimulating for me, and I did not want to be fondled outdoors at 2:30 in the morning. So, I suggested that we go back to the car. We walked back to the car, and despite my lack of enthusiasm, I decided to give in. I had had little to no sex in years, and I thought it might be worthwhile to let go and get some sexual gratification. He started fingering me in the back seat. I am not particularly keen on being fingered, but I let it continue because it felt good initially. However, he quickly turned up the intensity and fingered me quite aggressively. I tried to pull his hand away, but he was too into it. He did not stop. He kept trying to shove multiple fingers inside, but it would not fit. It was painful. He was fingering me hard and fast, thinking he was simultaneously rubbing my clitoris, but he was rubbing my urethra. The moments of actual pleasure were not worth the pain, forcefulness, and lack of skill. When I told him “I can’t take this,” he finally stopped. He wanted to have sex, but I declined because we did not have condoms, and he thought he would be unable to pull out. He drove me back to my place, and when I got out of the car, it was painful to walk. When I attempted to pee, it was excruciating. I screamed in pain. The next morning, I looked at my vagina with my selfie camera and noticed that there were literal flaps and bits of skin hanging from my labia and urethra. I had several cuts and was bleeding from all of them. I have no idea what damage he did inside my vagina. It hurts to sit, and my vagina is swollen. I am angry that there are probably many other vaginas that have been and are being similarly brutalized. We are too grown for this. He is too old to be this bad at fingering a woman. Men: Please, for the love of God, be gentle. It is a soft, delicate, tender vagina. It is not made of steel. submitted by /u/KittyPushie69 [link] [comments]
Before you attempt to insert your fingers into someone’s vagina, read this post if you have not received any feedback on fingering before. It does not matter how good you believe you are at pleasing women. Although I was not interested in hooking up with him, I should have followed my instincts. However, he has been persistently pursuing me for nearly two years, and I decided to give him a chance. I have been single for almost two years, and he has expressed sexual interest in me, but I have not reciprocated. I did not expect to have a pleasant experience with him, and I was not turned on by him in any way. I also suspected he would be the type of heterosexual male in bed who does not perform oral sex but expects it. Yesterday, for some reason, I decided to meet him and give him a chance. I hesitated because I was concerned that he would be determined to have sex, but I just wanted to hang out and connect. Follow your instincts and do not be like me. He came to my place, and we went for a walk, had a meal, and had a good conversation. I thought that maybe I had the wrong impression of him. I believed that he valued the time spent hanging out and conversing and would not be sexual during our first encounter. It was late (2-3 am), and we were by the lake when he started kissing me. I was not enthusiastic, but I tried to let it flow for a bit. He undid my bra and put his hand down my pants while sucking my nipples. I was uncomfortable mainly because it was not stimulating for me, and I did not want to be fondled outdoors at 2:30 in the morning. So, I suggested that we go back to the car. We walked back to the car, and despite my lack of enthusiasm, I decided to give in. I had had little to no sex in years, and I thought it might be worthwhile to let go and get some sexual gratification. He started fingering me in the back seat. I am not particularly keen on being fingered, but I let it continue because it felt good initially. However, he quickly turned up the intensity and fingered me quite aggressively. I tried to pull his hand away, but he was too into it. He did not stop. He kept trying to shove multiple fingers inside, but it would not fit. It was painful. He was fingering me hard and fast, thinking he was simultaneously rubbing my clitoris, but he was rubbing my urethra. The moments of actual pleasure were not worth the pain, forcefulness, and lack of skill. When I told him “I can’t take this,” he finally stopped. He wanted to have sex, but I declined because we did not have condoms, and he thought he would be unable to pull out. He drove me back to my place, and when I got out of the car, it was painful to walk. When I attempted to pee, it was excruciating. I screamed in pain. The next morning, I looked at my vagina with my selfie camera and noticed that there were literal flaps and bits of skin hanging from my labia and urethra. I had several cuts and was bleeding from all of them. I have no idea what damage he did inside my vagina. It hurts to sit, and my vagina is swollen. I am angry that there are probably many other vaginas that have been and are being similarly brutalized. We are too grown for this. He is too old to be this bad at fingering a woman.
Men: Please, for the love of God, be gentle. It is a soft, delicate, tender vagina. It is not made of steel.
submitted by /u/KittyPushie69
[link] [comments]