Wife made a comment that hurt me more that I would expect. How to get past that? /u/Turb0_3000 Sex

Recently my wife (together for 6years) was a bit tipsy, in a good mood and casually comments that apparently she thinks I have small testicles and goes on with ”I’ve never believed I would end up with a guy with so small nuts”. I replied that it was a strange comment and we did’nt discus further.

I know she loves me and she’s naturally not together with me because of my genitals. I always had the impression that she was quite happy with it (normal sized). And I’m not usually easy to hurt.

But they way she said it still hit me way harder that I would expect.

I completely lost the desire to have sex with her or even cuddle. She is starting to notice it.

Not sure why it affecting me and what to do about it. Maybe I just need time?

How do I get past this?

Recently my wife (together for 6years) was a bit tipsy, in a good mood and casually comments that apparently she thinks I have small testicles and goes on with ”I’ve never believed I would end up with a guy with so small nuts”. I replied that it was a strange comment and we did’nt discus further.

I know she loves me and she’s naturally not together with me because of my genitals. I always had the impression that she was quite happy with it (normal sized). And I’m not usually easy to hurt.

But they way she said it still hit me way harder that I would expect.

I completely lost the desire to have sex with her or even cuddle. She is starting to notice it.

Not sure why it affecting me and what to do about it. Maybe I just need time?

How do I get past this?