Howdy everyone,
As the title says, for the first 5 minutes of sex she experiences pain that brings her almost to tears. After a while of sitting patiently connected we can begin to move and she feels pleasure as normal. Occasionally she will experience pain if I thrust too deep during the times her cervix is lower before her period. Also lube is not an issue, she gets very wet before anything starts.
I have learned to do plenty of foreplay, I do oral, fingering and such before the act and it seems to have some effect but she still feels the same pain. This has pretty much been everytime we have had sex over the past year and a half of our relationship. We are each other’s first and only sex partner, so I doubt it’s STI related.
We are in a position where seeing a doctor is out of the question for about a year, I of course plan to as soon as possible, but for now any advice? It honestly would help so much, we both love sex but hate the fact that this pain has to be endured to get to the point of pleasure.
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r/sex Howdy everyone, As the title says, for the first 5 minutes of sex she experiences pain that brings her almost to tears. After a while of sitting patiently connected we can begin to move and she feels pleasure as normal. Occasionally she will experience pain if I thrust too deep during the times her cervix is lower before her period. Also lube is not an issue, she gets very wet before anything starts. I have learned to do plenty of foreplay, I do oral, fingering and such before the act and it seems to have some effect but she still feels the same pain. This has pretty much been everytime we have had sex over the past year and a half of our relationship. We are each other’s first and only sex partner, so I doubt it’s STI related. We are in a position where seeing a doctor is out of the question for about a year, I of course plan to as soon as possible, but for now any advice? It honestly would help so much, we both love sex but hate the fact that this pain has to be endured to get to the point of pleasure. submitted by /u/throwawayoopsmybad [link] [comments]
Howdy everyone,
As the title says, for the first 5 minutes of sex she experiences pain that brings her almost to tears. After a while of sitting patiently connected we can begin to move and she feels pleasure as normal. Occasionally she will experience pain if I thrust too deep during the times her cervix is lower before her period. Also lube is not an issue, she gets very wet before anything starts.
I have learned to do plenty of foreplay, I do oral, fingering and such before the act and it seems to have some effect but she still feels the same pain. This has pretty much been everytime we have had sex over the past year and a half of our relationship. We are each other’s first and only sex partner, so I doubt it’s STI related.
We are in a position where seeing a doctor is out of the question for about a year, I of course plan to as soon as possible, but for now any advice? It honestly would help so much, we both love sex but hate the fact that this pain has to be endured to get to the point of pleasure.
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