issues with her riding me /u/Apart-Wait3612 Sex

So i(20m) recently started having sex with my gf(21f), we were both virgins before eachother. So early on, we had issues with just me getting it in, I had performance anxiety so I’d be soft easily, she was still somewhat nervous so she’d be tight. So I struggled with missionary, doggy, etc. Was just hard but overtime we figured it out and I can do those with ease

She’s ridden me like 2 times, maybe 3, 1 time was on a chair and felt really nice but we had issues with me slipping out constantly and the condoms at the time weren’t the best fit, so they’d slip off easily and we got worried and stopped. Then we’ve tried 2 times on the bed and it just wasn’t working, any movement and she’d slip out immediately or we’d have issues with putting it in in general. My penis is like 5 inches, maybe slightly smaller and she has thicker frame, mainly just thick thighs and a big ass.

So yeah, she’s sorta got discouraged from doing those positions cause she was struggling and since then we’ve only stuck to missionary, doggy and like one position where she is on her side and one leg is in-between my legs. I wanna try riding more cause idk, sometimes I’d like to not do all the work, but since she got discouraged I want any tips of how to make it work or do it with her. Her bed is kinda soft, so I was thinking maybe it’s just that I sink in and need a pillow under my hips but idk

So yeah, any tips would be cool, also any positions to try to add more things would be nice, just yeah, any help

So i(20m) recently started having sex with my gf(21f), we were both virgins before eachother. So early on, we had issues with just me getting it in, I had performance anxiety so I’d be soft easily, she was still somewhat nervous so she’d be tight. So I struggled with missionary, doggy, etc. Was just hard but overtime we figured it out and I can do those with ease

She’s ridden me like 2 times, maybe 3, 1 time was on a chair and felt really nice but we had issues with me slipping out constantly and the condoms at the time weren’t the best fit, so they’d slip off easily and we got worried and stopped. Then we’ve tried 2 times on the bed and it just wasn’t working, any movement and she’d slip out immediately or we’d have issues with putting it in in general. My penis is like 5 inches, maybe slightly smaller and she has thicker frame, mainly just thick thighs and a big ass.

So yeah, she’s sorta got discouraged from doing those positions cause she was struggling and since then we’ve only stuck to missionary, doggy and like one position where she is on her side and one leg is in-between my legs. I wanna try riding more cause idk, sometimes I’d like to not do all the work, but since she got discouraged I want any tips of how to make it work or do it with her. Her bed is kinda soft, so I was thinking maybe it’s just that I sink in and need a pillow under my hips but idk

So yeah, any tips would be cool, also any positions to try to add more things would be nice, just yeah, any help