Advice for how to let down people gently? /u/Altbcimcloseted Sex

I’m a people pleaser and struggle with saying no, so I keep hooking up with people because I feel bad about saying no to sex. This has happened with just random dudes and in relationships. I think it stems from me being insecure and valuing the other person’s feelings higher than mine. It’s not that I dislike sex but people are using me at this point. Like having sex once a month is nice but getting booty calls 3 times a week isn’t for me.

I’m looking for advice and tips on how to handle rejecting people.

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​r/sex I’m a people pleaser and struggle with saying no, so I keep hooking up with people because I feel bad about saying no to sex. This has happened with just random dudes and in relationships. I think it stems from me being insecure and valuing the other person’s feelings higher than mine. It’s not that I dislike sex but people are using me at this point. Like having sex once a month is nice but getting booty calls 3 times a week isn’t for me. I’m looking for advice and tips on how to handle rejecting people. submitted by /u/Altbcimcloseted [link] [comments] 

I’m a people pleaser and struggle with saying no, so I keep hooking up with people because I feel bad about saying no to sex. This has happened with just random dudes and in relationships. I think it stems from me being insecure and valuing the other person’s feelings higher than mine. It’s not that I dislike sex but people are using me at this point. Like having sex once a month is nice but getting booty calls 3 times a week isn’t for me.

I’m looking for advice and tips on how to handle rejecting people.

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