So, I (27m) am a very anxious person (just as much as my mother and my grandma, we worry about nothing). It has affected parts of my life, but I have been trying to fake it till I make it, which kinda works outside of sex.
However, ever single time I meet a girl, I get really anxious about not being able to get it up. This usually goes away after a few weeks of exposure to this person, but I have the impression that the girls I date don’t want to wait that long, and I can understand.
I believe my self-esteem is good. I have also tried meditating and so on, but at this point I am just trying to embrace my anxiety and accept it. There is something about it that I (and my mother and grandmother) can’t seem to control.
Any advice? I am not asexual, I actually have an average libido. I have tried to talk about this / give hints that I have trouble relaxing, but I think it is either off-putting or being ignored by the girls that reach my bedroom.
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r/sex So, I (27m) am a very anxious person (just as much as my mother and my grandma, we worry about nothing). It has affected parts of my life, but I have been trying to fake it till I make it, which kinda works outside of sex. However, ever single time I meet a girl, I get really anxious about not being able to get it up. This usually goes away after a few weeks of exposure to this person, but I have the impression that the girls I date don’t want to wait that long, and I can understand. I believe my self-esteem is good. I have also tried meditating and so on, but at this point I am just trying to embrace my anxiety and accept it. There is something about it that I (and my mother and grandmother) can’t seem to control. Any advice? I am not asexual, I actually have an average libido. I have tried to talk about this / give hints that I have trouble relaxing, but I think it is either off-putting or being ignored by the girls that reach my bedroom. submitted by /u/CaptainFungiNails [link] [comments]
So, I (27m) am a very anxious person (just as much as my mother and my grandma, we worry about nothing). It has affected parts of my life, but I have been trying to fake it till I make it, which kinda works outside of sex.
However, ever single time I meet a girl, I get really anxious about not being able to get it up. This usually goes away after a few weeks of exposure to this person, but I have the impression that the girls I date don’t want to wait that long, and I can understand.
I believe my self-esteem is good. I have also tried meditating and so on, but at this point I am just trying to embrace my anxiety and accept it. There is something about it that I (and my mother and grandmother) can’t seem to control.
Any advice? I am not asexual, I actually have an average libido. I have tried to talk about this / give hints that I have trouble relaxing, but I think it is either off-putting or being ignored by the girls that reach my bedroom.
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