Hello there.
So I had my first experience with my new GF. She was very much into it, and I wanted to give her all the attention I could, but in the end, it was a very bad experience. She didn’t allow me to touch/lick her down there cuz she was afraid I would spread germs onto her (even though I literally went to wash my hands thoroughly midst the making-out), and she didn’t want to touch me in any way (other than hugging/kissing), on the other hand, she was persistent that she wanted to have intercourse, which we did (and I stopped it quickly because it was hurting her so I didn’t want to continue since it was a bad experience for her). So on one hand, she was very eager to progress much faster than I was, but on the other hand, my concern is that this is going to be all that we will ever do – a quickie in a missionary position, and thats it, no oral, no foreplay, nothing. My question is, does anyone have a similar experience, and can tell me that its only a matter of time before she opens up, or should I quit the relationship because we are simply not compatible in the bedroom?
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r/sex Hello there. So I had my first experience with my new GF. She was very much into it, and I wanted to give her all the attention I could, but in the end, it was a very bad experience. She didn’t allow me to touch/lick her down there cuz she was afraid I would spread germs onto her (even though I literally went to wash my hands thoroughly midst the making-out), and she didn’t want to touch me in any way (other than hugging/kissing), on the other hand, she was persistent that she wanted to have intercourse, which we did (and I stopped it quickly because it was hurting her so I didn’t want to continue since it was a bad experience for her). So on one hand, she was very eager to progress much faster than I was, but on the other hand, my concern is that this is going to be all that we will ever do – a quickie in a missionary position, and thats it, no oral, no foreplay, nothing. My question is, does anyone have a similar experience, and can tell me that its only a matter of time before she opens up, or should I quit the relationship because we are simply not compatible in the bedroom? submitted by /u/Due_Display5648 [link] [comments]
Hello there.
So I had my first experience with my new GF. She was very much into it, and I wanted to give her all the attention I could, but in the end, it was a very bad experience. She didn’t allow me to touch/lick her down there cuz she was afraid I would spread germs onto her (even though I literally went to wash my hands thoroughly midst the making-out), and she didn’t want to touch me in any way (other than hugging/kissing), on the other hand, she was persistent that she wanted to have intercourse, which we did (and I stopped it quickly because it was hurting her so I didn’t want to continue since it was a bad experience for her). So on one hand, she was very eager to progress much faster than I was, but on the other hand, my concern is that this is going to be all that we will ever do – a quickie in a missionary position, and thats it, no oral, no foreplay, nothing. My question is, does anyone have a similar experience, and can tell me that its only a matter of time before she opens up, or should I quit the relationship because we are simply not compatible in the bedroom?
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