I was dating a man for a short period last year and I was in love with him. He was perfect as a personality and also in bed, we had perfect compatibility. He was respectful and kind, but also naughty and funny and always joking around and making fun of me. He was always great in bed and also had a lot of kinks which matched with mine and he was disrespectful and dominant just how and when I liked it.
The current guy that I’m going out with after that (early initial stage of dating) is very sweet, respectful and kind too and an amazing person who I like a lot but in bed he seems to be too kind and not kinky enough for me. He is almost like too respectful, while I prefer a little bit of disrespect in the bedroom. This new guy seems to be too vanilla for me and I don’t know why I keep thinking of the way I had sex with my ex. I crave and miss that kind of sex but I can’t make my current partner change his personality obviously. His personality generally is just too nice and sweet instead of funny or playful so it’s probably just not in him to behave this certain way in bed. I like him otherwise and the sex is not really bad at all but how can I convey to him to be more nasty and dominating? He is even scared to bite me too hard thinking it might hurt me. 🙁
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r/sex I was dating a man for a short period last year and I was in love with him. He was perfect as a personality and also in bed, we had perfect compatibility. He was respectful and kind, but also naughty and funny and always joking around and making fun of me. He was always great in bed and also had a lot of kinks which matched with mine and he was disrespectful and dominant just how and when I liked it. The current guy that I’m going out with after that (early initial stage of dating) is very sweet, respectful and kind too and an amazing person who I like a lot but in bed he seems to be too kind and not kinky enough for me. He is almost like too respectful, while I prefer a little bit of disrespect in the bedroom. This new guy seems to be too vanilla for me and I don’t know why I keep thinking of the way I had sex with my ex. I crave and miss that kind of sex but I can’t make my current partner change his personality obviously. His personality generally is just too nice and sweet instead of funny or playful so it’s probably just not in him to behave this certain way in bed. I like him otherwise and the sex is not really bad at all but how can I convey to him to be more nasty and dominating? He is even scared to bite me too hard thinking it might hurt me. 🙁 submitted by /u/Mobile_Specialist_94 [link] [comments]
I was dating a man for a short period last year and I was in love with him. He was perfect as a personality and also in bed, we had perfect compatibility. He was respectful and kind, but also naughty and funny and always joking around and making fun of me. He was always great in bed and also had a lot of kinks which matched with mine and he was disrespectful and dominant just how and when I liked it.
The current guy that I’m going out with after that (early initial stage of dating) is very sweet, respectful and kind too and an amazing person who I like a lot but in bed he seems to be too kind and not kinky enough for me. He is almost like too respectful, while I prefer a little bit of disrespect in the bedroom. This new guy seems to be too vanilla for me and I don’t know why I keep thinking of the way I had sex with my ex. I crave and miss that kind of sex but I can’t make my current partner change his personality obviously. His personality generally is just too nice and sweet instead of funny or playful so it’s probably just not in him to behave this certain way in bed. I like him otherwise and the sex is not really bad at all but how can I convey to him to be more nasty and dominating? He is even scared to bite me too hard thinking it might hurt me. 🙁
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