My wife (F, 40s) and I (M, 35ish) have been married for about 5 years.I’m her first and only sexual partner. It usually starts with a bit of kissing, then a blowjob, and then either cowgirl or missionary until we both orgasm. It’s nice, it’s very pleasurable, but I cannot stop thinking about the idea of humiliating/dominating her.
I’ve brought it up and she is a open to it. In the past we’ve done things like blindfolding, spanking, handcuffing, etc. We haven’t really used any toys because, embarrassingly, we never think to buy them when the opportunity arises.
I’m also a very gentle person. I have a hard time commanding her in the bedroom
I’d like to up the ante on the humiliation and become a better dominator. How do I do that? I am open to anything except public displays and other people.
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r/sex My wife (F, 40s) and I (M, 35ish) have been married for about 5 years.I’m her first and only sexual partner. It usually starts with a bit of kissing, then a blowjob, and then either cowgirl or missionary until we both orgasm. It’s nice, it’s very pleasurable, but I cannot stop thinking about the idea of humiliating/dominating her. I’ve brought it up and she is a open to it. In the past we’ve done things like blindfolding, spanking, handcuffing, etc. We haven’t really used any toys because, embarrassingly, we never think to buy them when the opportunity arises. I’m also a very gentle person. I have a hard time commanding her in the bedroom I’d like to up the ante on the humiliation and become a better dominator. How do I do that? I am open to anything except public displays and other people. submitted by /u/friendoffreya [link] [comments]
My wife (F, 40s) and I (M, 35ish) have been married for about 5 years.I’m her first and only sexual partner. It usually starts with a bit of kissing, then a blowjob, and then either cowgirl or missionary until we both orgasm. It’s nice, it’s very pleasurable, but I cannot stop thinking about the idea of humiliating/dominating her.
I’ve brought it up and she is a open to it. In the past we’ve done things like blindfolding, spanking, handcuffing, etc. We haven’t really used any toys because, embarrassingly, we never think to buy them when the opportunity arises.
I’m also a very gentle person. I have a hard time commanding her in the bedroom
I’d like to up the ante on the humiliation and become a better dominator. How do I do that? I am open to anything except public displays and other people.
submitted by /u/friendoffreya
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