I blew it in the sack, can I get help? /u/ashuovo Sex

Okay, so I’m kinda panicking a little, let me give you some back story, I am a male 24 and I haven’t had sex in 3 years mainly cause I got really hurt by my ex and just took time off to be by myself

I recently moved to a different country and met a really beautiful girl like absolute 10/10 with everything you’d ever wish for in a girl (well at least for me) and I explained that I hadn’t had sex for while and she was really cool about it and we get back to my place and I get so hard and just want to fuck the shit outta her, I put the condom on and I she sits on my dick and literally after 2 pumps I blew my load, like I had no control and couldn’t even tell it happened my dick just went limp and all I could do was say sorry and this girl was really sweet, like she was so understanding I couldn’t have asked for anyone better

But the story goes on, now I have had sex before and I would go multiple rounds any guy in here knows after the first round doesn’t count the real action starts after that and that’s what would always happen I would kill it in rounds 2 and up but this time it just didn’t happen my dick didn’t get hard again, and it wasn’t because of her like it would get hard raw and as soon as the condom went on it went limp every single fucking time finally at the end I get so hard after forever and she said I should hit it raw and it was good but I muted after 2 mins which is weird cause normally I last long during the second round

I honestly feel so shit like I feel so low and horrible and I really tried to make this girl feel good by going down on her and fingering her but ladies really wanna just get fucked in the end and I couldn’t give it to her, I feel so fucking bad like awful, can someone explain why this happened to me and how I can make myself better or like I used to be

P.S the girl did say I was very nervous and I was she was gorgeous and very sweet so of course I would be nervous after not having sex for 3 years

Okay, so I’m kinda panicking a little, let me give you some back story, I am a male 24 and I haven’t had sex in 3 years mainly cause I got really hurt by my ex and just took time off to be by myself

I recently moved to a different country and met a really beautiful girl like absolute 10/10 with everything you’d ever wish for in a girl (well at least for me) and I explained that I hadn’t had sex for while and she was really cool about it and we get back to my place and I get so hard and just want to fuck the shit outta her, I put the condom on and I she sits on my dick and literally after 2 pumps I blew my load, like I had no control and couldn’t even tell it happened my dick just went limp and all I could do was say sorry and this girl was really sweet, like she was so understanding I couldn’t have asked for anyone better

But the story goes on, now I have had sex before and I would go multiple rounds any guy in here knows after the first round doesn’t count the real action starts after that and that’s what would always happen I would kill it in rounds 2 and up but this time it just didn’t happen my dick didn’t get hard again, and it wasn’t because of her like it would get hard raw and as soon as the condom went on it went limp every single fucking time finally at the end I get so hard after forever and she said I should hit it raw and it was good but I muted after 2 mins which is weird cause normally I last long during the second round

I honestly feel so shit like I feel so low and horrible and I really tried to make this girl feel good by going down on her and fingering her but ladies really wanna just get fucked in the end and I couldn’t give it to her, I feel so fucking bad like awful, can someone explain why this happened to me and how I can make myself better or like I used to be

P.S the girl did say I was very nervous and I was she was gorgeous and very sweet so of course I would be nervous after not having sex for 3 years