He finally made me cum…but is it too late? /u/slut4you4452 Sex

I’ve been with my partner for almost 13 years, and he’s made me cum a total of twice in those 13 years – once when we first started dating and once the other night. Granted, I’m pretty difficult to get to orgasm (I can’t myself without a vibrator), but in all these years he’s never been concerned with making me cum.

I started realizing how selfish he was being in bed recently (because for so long he’s been satisfied with me not having an orgasm during our sexual encounters) and finally got the nerve to ask him if he knew how to make me cum. He acted hurt that I even questioned him about it, so I decided to drop it and not have an argument.

Well…Sunday night rolls around and we’re fooling around, and he’s fingering me and rubbing my clit and I cum…pretty easily. Instead of being happy, I’m kinda pissed.

I look up at him and said “If you could do that, this whole time, why haven’t you done it?” He shrugged and said a vibrator is quicker.

The next day I pressed him further and he said that it was partially my fault that I haven’t orgasmed for all these years because I wasn’t in the right mindset, that I have to be in the right mood, and that a lot of foreplay goes into it, too. He also admitted to me that I challenged him with my question, so he had to make me cum to almost put me in my place.

My emotions are now everywhere, but I mainly feel like he’s been incredibly selfish in the bedroom because he didn’t think I cared, and that really doesn’t sit right with me. Thoughts?

I’ve been with my partner for almost 13 years, and he’s made me cum a total of twice in those 13 years – once when we first started dating and once the other night. Granted, I’m pretty difficult to get to orgasm (I can’t myself without a vibrator), but in all these years he’s never been concerned with making me cum.

I started realizing how selfish he was being in bed recently (because for so long he’s been satisfied with me not having an orgasm during our sexual encounters) and finally got the nerve to ask him if he knew how to make me cum. He acted hurt that I even questioned him about it, so I decided to drop it and not have an argument.

Well…Sunday night rolls around and we’re fooling around, and he’s fingering me and rubbing my clit and I cum…pretty easily. Instead of being happy, I’m kinda pissed.

I look up at him and said “If you could do that, this whole time, why haven’t you done it?” He shrugged and said a vibrator is quicker.

The next day I pressed him further and he said that it was partially my fault that I haven’t orgasmed for all these years because I wasn’t in the right mindset, that I have to be in the right mood, and that a lot of foreplay goes into it, too. He also admitted to me that I challenged him with my question, so he had to make me cum to almost put me in my place.

My emotions are now everywhere, but I mainly feel like he’s been incredibly selfish in the bedroom because he didn’t think I cared, and that really doesn’t sit right with me. Thoughts?