My wife and I are both 32 and have been married for a handful of years. Our relationship is really great.
In our early years she would talk about her high libido and that she enjoyed how well endowed I am even though sex seemed painful for her at times. She never said outright that she was a size queen but she gave off that vibe and said bigger turned her on which I liked. This is pertinent because she knows my ex of 3 years and I broke up because the sex was almost incompatible.
Move forward to today and even with silicone lube sex is more painful for her. This struggle puts us off and we are both getting frustrated. I can tell sex seems like a project to her and she is more reluctant and quick to reject my advances. I frequently hear it’s too big and there’s not enough time as if to throw me bone while rejecting me. I am beginning to get very discouraged and don’t know what to do. What options are there, have other couples worked through something similar, could surgery relieve the problem?
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r/sex My wife and I are both 32 and have been married for a handful of years. Our relationship is really great. In our early years she would talk about her high libido and that she enjoyed how well endowed I am even though sex seemed painful for her at times. She never said outright that she was a size queen but she gave off that vibe and said bigger turned her on which I liked. This is pertinent because she knows my ex of 3 years and I broke up because the sex was almost incompatible. Move forward to today and even with silicone lube sex is more painful for her. This struggle puts us off and we are both getting frustrated. I can tell sex seems like a project to her and she is more reluctant and quick to reject my advances. I frequently hear it’s too big and there’s not enough time as if to throw me bone while rejecting me. I am beginning to get very discouraged and don’t know what to do. What options are there, have other couples worked through something similar, could surgery relieve the problem? submitted by /u/Affectionate-Load410 [link] [comments]
My wife and I are both 32 and have been married for a handful of years. Our relationship is really great.
In our early years she would talk about her high libido and that she enjoyed how well endowed I am even though sex seemed painful for her at times. She never said outright that she was a size queen but she gave off that vibe and said bigger turned her on which I liked. This is pertinent because she knows my ex of 3 years and I broke up because the sex was almost incompatible.
Move forward to today and even with silicone lube sex is more painful for her. This struggle puts us off and we are both getting frustrated. I can tell sex seems like a project to her and she is more reluctant and quick to reject my advances. I frequently hear it’s too big and there’s not enough time as if to throw me bone while rejecting me. I am beginning to get very discouraged and don’t know what to do. What options are there, have other couples worked through something similar, could surgery relieve the problem?
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