Hi. I’m completely new to this sub, so I’m sorry if this is the wrong place for this but I’m not really sure where else to post.
I, 24f, have only recently started enjoying sex and my sexual partners have started asking what turns me on. My first few sexual partners (sp) never really cared or focused on my pleasure; my ex and current sp have, and surprise surprise I’m actually nearing climax and enjoying the experience, but I struggle to think of anything past my run of the mill turn ons.
Dirty talk, sensory play (touch, soft biting, hair pulling), and restraints are the top three but I was wondering what else I could try that won’t overwhelm me (I struggle with this, immensely). I’m also more submissive than dominant but have struggled with this role due to recent trauma; how do you start being more dominant in bed (as this role clearly isn’t working for me anymore)?
I want to explore my sexuality more but don’t know where to start. Any advice on toys, kinks, hell even positions you guys have will be appreciated.
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r/sex Hi. I’m completely new to this sub, so I’m sorry if this is the wrong place for this but I’m not really sure where else to post. I, 24f, have only recently started enjoying sex and my sexual partners have started asking what turns me on. My first few sexual partners (sp) never really cared or focused on my pleasure; my ex and current sp have, and surprise surprise I’m actually nearing climax and enjoying the experience, but I struggle to think of anything past my run of the mill turn ons. Dirty talk, sensory play (touch, soft biting, hair pulling), and restraints are the top three but I was wondering what else I could try that won’t overwhelm me (I struggle with this, immensely). I’m also more submissive than dominant but have struggled with this role due to recent trauma; how do you start being more dominant in bed (as this role clearly isn’t working for me anymore)? I want to explore my sexuality more but don’t know where to start. Any advice on toys, kinks, hell even positions you guys have will be appreciated. submitted by /u/don0t_ask [link] [comments]
Hi. I’m completely new to this sub, so I’m sorry if this is the wrong place for this but I’m not really sure where else to post.
I, 24f, have only recently started enjoying sex and my sexual partners have started asking what turns me on. My first few sexual partners (sp) never really cared or focused on my pleasure; my ex and current sp have, and surprise surprise I’m actually nearing climax and enjoying the experience, but I struggle to think of anything past my run of the mill turn ons.
Dirty talk, sensory play (touch, soft biting, hair pulling), and restraints are the top three but I was wondering what else I could try that won’t overwhelm me (I struggle with this, immensely). I’m also more submissive than dominant but have struggled with this role due to recent trauma; how do you start being more dominant in bed (as this role clearly isn’t working for me anymore)?
I want to explore my sexuality more but don’t know where to start. Any advice on toys, kinks, hell even positions you guys have will be appreciated.
submitted by /u/don0t_ask
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