Was he bad at sex, and should I tell him? /u/butteredbuttons Sex

I’m 22 and was out with a date just yesterday evening. So basically, even though I didn’t have sex before this, I can safely say that yesterday was a….confusing thing to process. Note that I told him beforehand MULTIPLE TIMES that I’m a virgin, and that I do need patience.

He was super handsy even before we were planning on having sex, and after basically not even asking (I told him I prefer not to have sex in the car since it was my first time), he insisted that no one will see us and that there’s enough room to be comfortable.

He barely did foreplay, went straight to making me suck him off, and quite literally making me deep throat him after telling me to relax my throat (wasn’t expecting it)

The sex itself was very rough too. To be fair, I did tell him that I would like him to go rough once we get settled in to everything, and he did tell me he often went rough too. Okay, cool……Thing is, I didn’t expect to go home with my vagina bleeding and feeling pain inside all night.

I didn’t even cum, he literally lasted like a minute and kinda just pulled out and came over my stomach??

Another thing that seriously bothered me was that I did tell him multiple times that he should wear a condom and that I’m not on any birth control, but he quite literally brushed it aside and kept reassuring me and continuing on like it was nothing important.

It wasn’t really a fun experience, and now I’m more worried that there’s a possibility that I might be pregnant or have an std and ughdhhwjs

After dropping him off, I literally raced to the closest drug store and bought myself my own Plan B and now have to worry about stds.

I honestly extremely stupid right now and a bit gross since it was not just disappointing, but now I have to worry about all these other things on top of school when it should have been a pleasurable night.

I’m tempted to tell him how shit he is, but I don’t know. I feel like I vented more than asked a question, but I haven’t really talked to him much aside from texting him he owes me half of the payment for the plan B. The idea of talking to him makes me pissed.

I’m 22 and was out with a date just yesterday evening. So basically, even though I didn’t have sex before this, I can safely say that yesterday was a….confusing thing to process. Note that I told him beforehand MULTIPLE TIMES that I’m a virgin, and that I do need patience.

He was super handsy even before we were planning on having sex, and after basically not even asking (I told him I prefer not to have sex in the car since it was my first time), he insisted that no one will see us and that there’s enough room to be comfortable.

He barely did foreplay, went straight to making me suck him off, and quite literally making me deep throat him after telling me to relax my throat (wasn’t expecting it)

The sex itself was very rough too. To be fair, I did tell him that I would like him to go rough once we get settled in to everything, and he did tell me he often went rough too. Okay, cool……Thing is, I didn’t expect to go home with my vagina bleeding and feeling pain inside all night.

I didn’t even cum, he literally lasted like a minute and kinda just pulled out and came over my stomach??

Another thing that seriously bothered me was that I did tell him multiple times that he should wear a condom and that I’m not on any birth control, but he quite literally brushed it aside and kept reassuring me and continuing on like it was nothing important.

It wasn’t really a fun experience, and now I’m more worried that there’s a possibility that I might be pregnant or have an std and ughdhhwjs

After dropping him off, I literally raced to the closest drug store and bought myself my own Plan B and now have to worry about stds.

I honestly extremely stupid right now and a bit gross since it was not just disappointing, but now I have to worry about all these other things on top of school when it should have been a pleasurable night.

I’m tempted to tell him how shit he is, but I don’t know. I feel like I vented more than asked a question, but I haven’t really talked to him much aside from texting him he owes me half of the payment for the plan B. The idea of talking to him makes me pissed.