So, me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been having sex for the past 4 months or so, and it’s been going great. He “lost his v-card” with me, and I’ve tried to be reassuring about anything he could be worried about, but there’s this one thing that bothers me, like, personally.
He can’t cum from a handjob, blowjob, or sex. He only cums when he’s the one to finish himself off. When I’m asking if I can improve on anything, he says that everything feels really good, but he just can’t cum like that. Before the problem was that he couldn’t cum at all with someone in the same room as him, so it’s still an improvement, but, well…
I’m worried, if I’m doing something wrong, or if I can do anything else to maybe make him less nervous perhaps? It’s been bothering me for a while, cuz it feels unfair to me that I’m cumming at least 3 or 4 times from sex and he has to finish by himself
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r/sex So, me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been having sex for the past 4 months or so, and it’s been going great. He “lost his v-card” with me, and I’ve tried to be reassuring about anything he could be worried about, but there’s this one thing that bothers me, like, personally. He can’t cum from a handjob, blowjob, or sex. He only cums when he’s the one to finish himself off. When I’m asking if I can improve on anything, he says that everything feels really good, but he just can’t cum like that. Before the problem was that he couldn’t cum at all with someone in the same room as him, so it’s still an improvement, but, well… I’m worried, if I’m doing something wrong, or if I can do anything else to maybe make him less nervous perhaps? It’s been bothering me for a while, cuz it feels unfair to me that I’m cumming at least 3 or 4 times from sex and he has to finish by himself submitted by /u/Traditional_Cap_7622 [link] [comments]
So, me (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been having sex for the past 4 months or so, and it’s been going great. He “lost his v-card” with me, and I’ve tried to be reassuring about anything he could be worried about, but there’s this one thing that bothers me, like, personally.
He can’t cum from a handjob, blowjob, or sex. He only cums when he’s the one to finish himself off. When I’m asking if I can improve on anything, he says that everything feels really good, but he just can’t cum like that. Before the problem was that he couldn’t cum at all with someone in the same room as him, so it’s still an improvement, but, well…
I’m worried, if I’m doing something wrong, or if I can do anything else to maybe make him less nervous perhaps? It’s been bothering me for a while, cuz it feels unfair to me that I’m cumming at least 3 or 4 times from sex and he has to finish by himself
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