My girlfriend (27F) and I (29M) are in an amazing and happy relationship but we both agree that our sex life has become a bit predictable. We are both extremely caring lovers (we both always cum, her usually 3+ times) but we want to try other things beyond missionary, doggy, oral, etc.
The problem is that we are both easily embarrassed/shy and so expressing our desires is something we have avoided in the past.
This is about to change.
Next week, we’re going to go on a date and exchange written “Bedroom Wishlists” with each other. We think that having them written down and swapping our lists at the same time will help us overcome our hangups. No chickening out. No being shy. We’re both going to just throw all our ideas out there all at once and then start doing them!
My list so far: 1. Having her wear a remote-controlled vibrator on a date 2. Having her wear skin-tight fishnet during sex 3. Pulling out and finishing on her body, then keeping going for round 2 without cleaning up 4. Handcuffs, blindfolds, etc. 5. Use a pen to draw our ideal pubic hair layouts on each other (I’m curious to know what she likes) 6. Make a home video together and then watch it 7. Hooking up in semi-public places (restaurant bathroom, etc) 8. Getting her permission to sometimes wake her up by going down on her (consent is a big thing for her so I’ve avoided doing this in the past because it could be seen as a bit creepy) 9. Edging her multiple times to the point she almost cums, then pausing 10. ???
Has anyone tried something similar?
Does anyone (male or female) have suggestions for things I should add to my list?
Any bold predictions about things that might show up on my girlfriend’s list? Ladies, what would be at the top of your list if you were doing this with your partner?
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r/sex My girlfriend (27F) and I (29M) are in an amazing and happy relationship but we both agree that our sex life has become a bit predictable. We are both extremely caring lovers (we both always cum, her usually 3+ times) but we want to try other things beyond missionary, doggy, oral, etc. The problem is that we are both easily embarrassed/shy and so expressing our desires is something we have avoided in the past. This is about to change. Next week, we’re going to go on a date and exchange written “Bedroom Wishlists” with each other. We think that having them written down and swapping our lists at the same time will help us overcome our hangups. No chickening out. No being shy. We’re both going to just throw all our ideas out there all at once and then start doing them! My list so far: 1. Having her wear a remote-controlled vibrator on a date 2. Having her wear skin-tight fishnet during sex 3. Pulling out and finishing on her body, then keeping going for round 2 without cleaning up 4. Handcuffs, blindfolds, etc. 5. Use a pen to draw our ideal pubic hair layouts on each other (I’m curious to know what she likes) 6. Make a home video together and then watch it 7. Hooking up in semi-public places (restaurant bathroom, etc) 8. Getting her permission to sometimes wake her up by going down on her (consent is a big thing for her so I’ve avoided doing this in the past because it could be seen as a bit creepy) 9. Edging her multiple times to the point she almost cums, then pausing 10. ??? Has anyone tried something similar? Does anyone (male or female) have suggestions for things I should add to my list? Any bold predictions about things that might show up on my girlfriend’s list? Ladies, what would be at the top of your list if you were doing this with your partner? submitted by /u/BurnerVangelis1492 [link] [comments]
My girlfriend (27F) and I (29M) are in an amazing and happy relationship but we both agree that our sex life has become a bit predictable. We are both extremely caring lovers (we both always cum, her usually 3+ times) but we want to try other things beyond missionary, doggy, oral, etc.
The problem is that we are both easily embarrassed/shy and so expressing our desires is something we have avoided in the past.
This is about to change.
Next week, we’re going to go on a date and exchange written “Bedroom Wishlists” with each other. We think that having them written down and swapping our lists at the same time will help us overcome our hangups. No chickening out. No being shy. We’re both going to just throw all our ideas out there all at once and then start doing them!
My list so far: 1. Having her wear a remote-controlled vibrator on a date 2. Having her wear skin-tight fishnet during sex 3. Pulling out and finishing on her body, then keeping going for round 2 without cleaning up 4. Handcuffs, blindfolds, etc. 5. Use a pen to draw our ideal pubic hair layouts on each other (I’m curious to know what she likes) 6. Make a home video together and then watch it 7. Hooking up in semi-public places (restaurant bathroom, etc) 8. Getting her permission to sometimes wake her up by going down on her (consent is a big thing for her so I’ve avoided doing this in the past because it could be seen as a bit creepy) 9. Edging her multiple times to the point she almost cums, then pausing 10. ???
Has anyone tried something similar?
Does anyone (male or female) have suggestions for things I should add to my list?
Any bold predictions about things that might show up on my girlfriend’s list? Ladies, what would be at the top of your list if you were doing this with your partner?
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