My (F25) boyfriend (M28) will touch me or give me oral for a short while (a few seconds to like 3 minutes) then complain that he is tired or uncomfortable or his neck or hands are sore. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want him to touch me anymore. Any time it happens I can’t relax and focus because I know he is going to stop sometime soon, so there is no point trying to enjoy it and try to finish. I always feel guilty that he is uncomfortable or hurting. Sometimes I will get frustrated and tell him to stop because he complains so much while he’s doing it.
We haven’t had PIV sex yet because I have not gone to my doctor for birth control yet, but that can wait. I don’t want to have intercourse until he has helped me finish anyway.
Our sex life consists of just me finishing him because I don’t even want to try to get there anymore. I always feel disappointed or frustrated and a bit used if i’m being honest.
It takes girls a long time to get there and i’m wondering have girls in the past faked it with him because I think he expects me to finish much faster. How do I go about this?
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r/sex My (F25) boyfriend (M28) will touch me or give me oral for a short while (a few seconds to like 3 minutes) then complain that he is tired or uncomfortable or his neck or hands are sore. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want him to touch me anymore. Any time it happens I can’t relax and focus because I know he is going to stop sometime soon, so there is no point trying to enjoy it and try to finish. I always feel guilty that he is uncomfortable or hurting. Sometimes I will get frustrated and tell him to stop because he complains so much while he’s doing it. We haven’t had PIV sex yet because I have not gone to my doctor for birth control yet, but that can wait. I don’t want to have intercourse until he has helped me finish anyway. Our sex life consists of just me finishing him because I don’t even want to try to get there anymore. I always feel disappointed or frustrated and a bit used if i’m being honest. It takes girls a long time to get there and i’m wondering have girls in the past faked it with him because I think he expects me to finish much faster. How do I go about this? submitted by /u/19ang [link] [comments]
My (F25) boyfriend (M28) will touch me or give me oral for a short while (a few seconds to like 3 minutes) then complain that he is tired or uncomfortable or his neck or hands are sore. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want him to touch me anymore. Any time it happens I can’t relax and focus because I know he is going to stop sometime soon, so there is no point trying to enjoy it and try to finish. I always feel guilty that he is uncomfortable or hurting. Sometimes I will get frustrated and tell him to stop because he complains so much while he’s doing it.
We haven’t had PIV sex yet because I have not gone to my doctor for birth control yet, but that can wait. I don’t want to have intercourse until he has helped me finish anyway.
Our sex life consists of just me finishing him because I don’t even want to try to get there anymore. I always feel disappointed or frustrated and a bit used if i’m being honest.
It takes girls a long time to get there and i’m wondering have girls in the past faked it with him because I think he expects me to finish much faster. How do I go about this?
submitted by /u/19ang
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