What’s the best etiquette after sex? /u/StaticNocturne Sex

As a guy, with a lady I’ve just recently met or started dating.

Firstly, who decides when sex is actually over? If I’m getting exhausted / tired / sore should I suggest we finish or could that be taken the wrong way? Should the lady usually be the one to say so?

Say we’ve finished up and we’re sweaty and I’ve got a condom full of spunk, should I immediately suggest having a shower? should I suggest showering together?

Or do most ladies like to lay there for a while afterwards? or is this a bit too intimate on a one night stand deal?

Then should the guy always offer her to stay the night? If she would rather not stay should I offer to drive her (if I’m sober enough) or call her an uber? Am I expected to pay for it?

If she does stay over, should we spoon during the night? Is it reasonable to expect to have sex again in the morning if we have time?

Am I expected to make her breakfast or something smaller like a coffee?

As a guy, with a lady I’ve just recently met or started dating.

Firstly, who decides when sex is actually over? If I’m getting exhausted / tired / sore should I suggest we finish or could that be taken the wrong way? Should the lady usually be the one to say so?

Say we’ve finished up and we’re sweaty and I’ve got a condom full of spunk, should I immediately suggest having a shower? should I suggest showering together?

Or do most ladies like to lay there for a while afterwards? or is this a bit too intimate on a one night stand deal?

Then should the guy always offer her to stay the night? If she would rather not stay should I offer to drive her (if I’m sober enough) or call her an uber? Am I expected to pay for it?

If she does stay over, should we spoon during the night? Is it reasonable to expect to have sex again in the morning if we have time?

Am I expected to make her breakfast or something smaller like a coffee?