To keep it short, we had a conversation and I asked if sex before marriage is a bad thing (she’s Christian). She told me no because most people don’t want to wait. Which was really relieving to hear. But I asked her her opinion on sex toys and she said she’s not against them if you already had sex before.
If a virgin uses them, HOWEVER, it is bad because then she will “no longer be a virgin” because her hymen is broken by the dildo. And when she has sex with a man, my mom presumes/hopes it’s her significant other and not a hook up, he will no longer believe he is her first because she did not bleed.
Now me, an 18 year old with a dildo and my sister who is in her 20s and has had sex when she was a teen with a guy who was not her boyfriend, and my mom does not know that she has had sex.
Apparently I’m worse because I “lost it” to a toy than to a man who ended up treated my sister like shit because he only wanted sex from her.
What? Where’s the sex positivity? Neither are bad 💀
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r/sex To keep it short, we had a conversation and I asked if sex before marriage is a bad thing (she’s Christian). She told me no because most people don’t want to wait. Which was really relieving to hear. But I asked her her opinion on sex toys and she said she’s not against them if you already had sex before. If a virgin uses them, HOWEVER, it is bad because then she will “no longer be a virgin” because her hymen is broken by the dildo. And when she has sex with a man, my mom presumes/hopes it’s her significant other and not a hook up, he will no longer believe he is her first because she did not bleed. Now me, an 18 year old with a dildo and my sister who is in her 20s and has had sex when she was a teen with a guy who was not her boyfriend, and my mom does not know that she has had sex. Apparently I’m worse because I “lost it” to a toy than to a man who ended up treated my sister like shit because he only wanted sex from her. What? Where’s the sex positivity? Neither are bad 💀 submitted by /u/so-doyouwannaknow [link] [comments]
To keep it short, we had a conversation and I asked if sex before marriage is a bad thing (she’s Christian). She told me no because most people don’t want to wait. Which was really relieving to hear. But I asked her her opinion on sex toys and she said she’s not against them if you already had sex before.
If a virgin uses them, HOWEVER, it is bad because then she will “no longer be a virgin” because her hymen is broken by the dildo. And when she has sex with a man, my mom presumes/hopes it’s her significant other and not a hook up, he will no longer believe he is her first because she did not bleed.
Now me, an 18 year old with a dildo and my sister who is in her 20s and has had sex when she was a teen with a guy who was not her boyfriend, and my mom does not know that she has had sex.
Apparently I’m worse because I “lost it” to a toy than to a man who ended up treated my sister like shit because he only wanted sex from her.
What? Where’s the sex positivity? Neither are bad 💀
submitted by /u/so-doyouwannaknow
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