My girlfriend won’t have sex with me till I save some money. /u/Temporary_Nature8918 Sex

Abortion is illegal here. She’s already made an appointment with a doctor to get birth control, and I’m completely fine with using condoms.

Pills + condoms seem like the ideal combo which should give us 100% certainty, am I wrong? She told me she won’t have sex till we open together a savings account. She already told me how much money we should have which she calculated based on the cost of a trip to our neighboring country and cost of the abortion + some extra money.

Of course I won’t insist – if that’s what she wants, I agree. But isn’t it a bit paranoid? Is this approach normal?

For more context, we’re not poor or anything. We’re young, don’t have much savings at the moment but we’re doing just fine.

Abortion is illegal here. She’s already made an appointment with a doctor to get birth control, and I’m completely fine with using condoms.

Pills + condoms seem like the ideal combo which should give us 100% certainty, am I wrong? She told me she won’t have sex till we open together a savings account. She already told me how much money we should have which she calculated based on the cost of a trip to our neighboring country and cost of the abortion + some extra money.

Of course I won’t insist – if that’s what she wants, I agree. But isn’t it a bit paranoid? Is this approach normal?

For more context, we’re not poor or anything. We’re young, don’t have much savings at the moment but we’re doing just fine.