So my LDR boyfriend and I decided recently that we would like to start being sexually active since we are both virgins (F20 & M18). We saw each other twice since then and pretty much “failed” to do the deed everytime. The first time we tried he was using condoms and had a huge trouble trying to enter me. The last time we tried I was on the pill and he was using only lube so we thought it would make things easier, and he kinda did enter me but it slipped out quickly because he lost erection. So our biggest problem here is that he can never get hard ENOUGH whenever we see each other. We often masturbate through the call and he is always rock hard during it, but for some reason it’s just semi-erected everytime we try to have sex, and he is losing it whenever he tries to enter me. We talked a lot about this and I even tried to give him oral, but since I never did that before he wasn’t really turned on by that and said that bj is just not the thing he enjoys. I also thought that maybe he just isn’t turned on by anything I do but he assured me that isn’t the case because he quite a lot enjoys giving me head or fingering me. So my question here is, what can I do to make him rock hard while we are together and did anyone else had similar experience?
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r/sex So my LDR boyfriend and I decided recently that we would like to start being sexually active since we are both virgins (F20 & M18). We saw each other twice since then and pretty much “failed” to do the deed everytime. The first time we tried he was using condoms and had a huge trouble trying to enter me. The last time we tried I was on the pill and he was using only lube so we thought it would make things easier, and he kinda did enter me but it slipped out quickly because he lost erection. So our biggest problem here is that he can never get hard ENOUGH whenever we see each other. We often masturbate through the call and he is always rock hard during it, but for some reason it’s just semi-erected everytime we try to have sex, and he is losing it whenever he tries to enter me. We talked a lot about this and I even tried to give him oral, but since I never did that before he wasn’t really turned on by that and said that bj is just not the thing he enjoys. I also thought that maybe he just isn’t turned on by anything I do but he assured me that isn’t the case because he quite a lot enjoys giving me head or fingering me. So my question here is, what can I do to make him rock hard while we are together and did anyone else had similar experience? submitted by /u/anyadreyar [link] [comments]
So my LDR boyfriend and I decided recently that we would like to start being sexually active since we are both virgins (F20 & M18). We saw each other twice since then and pretty much “failed” to do the deed everytime. The first time we tried he was using condoms and had a huge trouble trying to enter me. The last time we tried I was on the pill and he was using only lube so we thought it would make things easier, and he kinda did enter me but it slipped out quickly because he lost erection. So our biggest problem here is that he can never get hard ENOUGH whenever we see each other. We often masturbate through the call and he is always rock hard during it, but for some reason it’s just semi-erected everytime we try to have sex, and he is losing it whenever he tries to enter me. We talked a lot about this and I even tried to give him oral, but since I never did that before he wasn’t really turned on by that and said that bj is just not the thing he enjoys. I also thought that maybe he just isn’t turned on by anything I do but he assured me that isn’t the case because he quite a lot enjoys giving me head or fingering me. So my question here is, what can I do to make him rock hard while we are together and did anyone else had similar experience?
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