I (29M) went out with my friends (M/F early 30s) over the weekend. They’re a married couple. I’m not sure how the topic came up but I was asked if I had ever been in a threesome, which I have not, and then asked if I would be down to. I’m not opposed to the idea; I find the wife in particular very sexually attractive, they’re both great friends that I trust completely, and the idea of being the third-party in a consensual hotwife/cuck scenario is insanely hot to me, but I don’t think that’s the case here.
(I did not express my desires at the time, only answered that I haven’t been in one and may consider it but that I have some hang-ups)
The general vibe I got was that it was mostly coming from the husband (bisexual) looking for another guy to bring into the mix as he said “sometimes [he] just wants some dick”, she seemed rather indifferent just kinda letting him do his thing. I’m simply not that bi-curious, and for that reason alone I don’t think I’m the guy for the job. But I can’t shake this overwhelming FOMO. My dick is saying fuck yeah how often do you get permission to fuck someone’s wife, but my rational brain is pretty certain it’s not the right dynamic for me nor him. He has desires I won’t be able/willing to fulfill, and my expectations seem completely different than theirs.
It’s been stuck on my mind since. This is the first time I’ve ever been brought into this kind of conversation, so not sure how to navigate it & looking for opinions/advice I guess?
EDIT: thoughts about the wife are me fantasizing, not them trying to coerce me.
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r/sex I (29M) went out with my friends (M/F early 30s) over the weekend. They’re a married couple. I’m not sure how the topic came up but I was asked if I had ever been in a threesome, which I have not, and then asked if I would be down to. I’m not opposed to the idea; I find the wife in particular very sexually attractive, they’re both great friends that I trust completely, and the idea of being the third-party in a consensual hotwife/cuck scenario is insanely hot to me, but I don’t think that’s the case here. (I did not express my desires at the time, only answered that I haven’t been in one and may consider it but that I have some hang-ups) The general vibe I got was that it was mostly coming from the husband (bisexual) looking for another guy to bring into the mix as he said “sometimes [he] just wants some dick”, she seemed rather indifferent just kinda letting him do his thing. I’m simply not that bi-curious, and for that reason alone I don’t think I’m the guy for the job. But I can’t shake this overwhelming FOMO. My dick is saying fuck yeah how often do you get permission to fuck someone’s wife, but my rational brain is pretty certain it’s not the right dynamic for me nor him. He has desires I won’t be able/willing to fulfill, and my expectations seem completely different than theirs. It’s been stuck on my mind since. This is the first time I’ve ever been brought into this kind of conversation, so not sure how to navigate it & looking for opinions/advice I guess? EDIT: thoughts about the wife are me fantasizing, not them trying to coerce me. submitted by /u/Dramatic-Lab-1026 [link] [comments]
I (29M) went out with my friends (M/F early 30s) over the weekend. They’re a married couple. I’m not sure how the topic came up but I was asked if I had ever been in a threesome, which I have not, and then asked if I would be down to. I’m not opposed to the idea; I find the wife in particular very sexually attractive, they’re both great friends that I trust completely, and the idea of being the third-party in a consensual hotwife/cuck scenario is insanely hot to me, but I don’t think that’s the case here.
(I did not express my desires at the time, only answered that I haven’t been in one and may consider it but that I have some hang-ups)
The general vibe I got was that it was mostly coming from the husband (bisexual) looking for another guy to bring into the mix as he said “sometimes [he] just wants some dick”, she seemed rather indifferent just kinda letting him do his thing. I’m simply not that bi-curious, and for that reason alone I don’t think I’m the guy for the job. But I can’t shake this overwhelming FOMO. My dick is saying fuck yeah how often do you get permission to fuck someone’s wife, but my rational brain is pretty certain it’s not the right dynamic for me nor him. He has desires I won’t be able/willing to fulfill, and my expectations seem completely different than theirs.
It’s been stuck on my mind since. This is the first time I’ve ever been brought into this kind of conversation, so not sure how to navigate it & looking for opinions/advice I guess?
EDIT: thoughts about the wife are me fantasizing, not them trying to coerce me.
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