Hi, I’m in a weird situation. I’m dating a guy, and the attraction we both feel is obvious. We even had multiple dates at his place, that ended with me sleeping there because I was far from home. Lots of eye contact, smiling, compliments, sexual jokes. He always lets me sleep in his bed and he sleeps on the couch (the bed is single). However, we haven’t kissed yet (and we haven’t gone further obviously). I’ve slept at his place more than five times. I’m really shy… I made some of the first steps (like asking him out first) but it’s hard for me to be the one that gets physical first. He’s much more confident than me, but I suspect that he’s slow pacing because he thinks that I need slow pacing, because of my shyness and anxiety.
Actually, I’m always thinking about getting physical, I can’t take it anymore. My mind is always there, but when I try to do it I freeze. The last days were unbearable, I think I’m exploding. Yesterday we hanged out with another friend, and when I was back home we chatted a bit and exchanged some flirty texts with clear sexual nuances.
I think that when I will get to see him again I will just take his hand and go to the bedroom, and I’m pretty sure I will be very… passionate after all this waiting. Do you think it would be weird? We haven’t gone further up to now just because of lack of communication, I think. Since I’m very very shy he must have thought that it would be better to proceed very slowly. However, that’s not true. I tried to take the first step but it’s very hard for me, and I think I will just “explode” next time. Do you think it’s ok? I’m afraid he could think that I just went crazy if I jumped on him to kiss and have sex. But the sexual tension is extreme and I feel that the only way I could take the first step is this “explosion”. I don’t think I could manage to just talk or slowly get to that.
Do you think that he would be scared/confused if I did this or does this seem ok to you? I think that it would feel natural because the sexual tension is extreme, but I’m afraid that my behaviour would confuse him. What do you think?
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r/sex Hi, I’m in a weird situation. I’m dating a guy, and the attraction we both feel is obvious. We even had multiple dates at his place, that ended with me sleeping there because I was far from home. Lots of eye contact, smiling, compliments, sexual jokes. He always lets me sleep in his bed and he sleeps on the couch (the bed is single). However, we haven’t kissed yet (and we haven’t gone further obviously). I’ve slept at his place more than five times. I’m really shy… I made some of the first steps (like asking him out first) but it’s hard for me to be the one that gets physical first. He’s much more confident than me, but I suspect that he’s slow pacing because he thinks that I need slow pacing, because of my shyness and anxiety. Actually, I’m always thinking about getting physical, I can’t take it anymore. My mind is always there, but when I try to do it I freeze. The last days were unbearable, I think I’m exploding. Yesterday we hanged out with another friend, and when I was back home we chatted a bit and exchanged some flirty texts with clear sexual nuances. I think that when I will get to see him again I will just take his hand and go to the bedroom, and I’m pretty sure I will be very… passionate after all this waiting. Do you think it would be weird? We haven’t gone further up to now just because of lack of communication, I think. Since I’m very very shy he must have thought that it would be better to proceed very slowly. However, that’s not true. I tried to take the first step but it’s very hard for me, and I think I will just “explode” next time. Do you think it’s ok? I’m afraid he could think that I just went crazy if I jumped on him to kiss and have sex. But the sexual tension is extreme and I feel that the only way I could take the first step is this “explosion”. I don’t think I could manage to just talk or slowly get to that. Do you think that he would be scared/confused if I did this or does this seem ok to you? I think that it would feel natural because the sexual tension is extreme, but I’m afraid that my behaviour would confuse him. What do you think? submitted by /u/sparklyroot [link] [comments]
Hi, I’m in a weird situation. I’m dating a guy, and the attraction we both feel is obvious. We even had multiple dates at his place, that ended with me sleeping there because I was far from home. Lots of eye contact, smiling, compliments, sexual jokes. He always lets me sleep in his bed and he sleeps on the couch (the bed is single). However, we haven’t kissed yet (and we haven’t gone further obviously). I’ve slept at his place more than five times. I’m really shy… I made some of the first steps (like asking him out first) but it’s hard for me to be the one that gets physical first. He’s much more confident than me, but I suspect that he’s slow pacing because he thinks that I need slow pacing, because of my shyness and anxiety.
Actually, I’m always thinking about getting physical, I can’t take it anymore. My mind is always there, but when I try to do it I freeze. The last days were unbearable, I think I’m exploding. Yesterday we hanged out with another friend, and when I was back home we chatted a bit and exchanged some flirty texts with clear sexual nuances.
I think that when I will get to see him again I will just take his hand and go to the bedroom, and I’m pretty sure I will be very… passionate after all this waiting. Do you think it would be weird? We haven’t gone further up to now just because of lack of communication, I think. Since I’m very very shy he must have thought that it would be better to proceed very slowly. However, that’s not true. I tried to take the first step but it’s very hard for me, and I think I will just “explode” next time. Do you think it’s ok? I’m afraid he could think that I just went crazy if I jumped on him to kiss and have sex. But the sexual tension is extreme and I feel that the only way I could take the first step is this “explosion”. I don’t think I could manage to just talk or slowly get to that.
Do you think that he would be scared/confused if I did this or does this seem ok to you? I think that it would feel natural because the sexual tension is extreme, but I’m afraid that my behaviour would confuse him. What do you think?
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